How do narcissists feel when you finally walk away | The Narcissists' Code Ep 828

When I left my ex 9 years ago, I did not tell him a thing... I also did not tell friends or family because a lot of people have big mouths!! He came home and I was gone. I did not take any furniture or any of his things. I just wanted out!! That was the best decision I ever made. 9 years later I encountered him and he is still the SAME person! Thank you Lord, I'm free!!🙏🙌

It's weird when they discard you but still blame you for moving on with your life

Choosing me was the hardest decision I've ever made.

I left my narc after a 20 year marriage and 5 weeks after we separated, he was already living with his new dogmeat fugly supply and telling everyone that she’s “ the love of his life”. No one falls in love faster than a narcissist who needs a place to live 😂😂😂

Don’t be afraid to walk away from things that are not serving you. Turn pain into power ✊🏾✨

They think you're never gonna leave , it's like a shock when you finally wake up one day and realize he don't really love you 100 percent.

After 7 years with mine, I can spot a narcissist a mile away and I can move on immediately.

My son was married to a narcissist. She was horrible! She was at work and my son packed up all his belongings and left! Best decision he ever did! Thankfully, NO kids involved!

I am done No contact I've promised God and myself to never allow another toxic person to get that close to me again Anxiety gone, knots in my stomach gone and most nights I'm able to sleep all through the night. These people are never gonna change ya'll Run!

I left my narc husband of 29 years 2 Wednesday's ago while he was at work & that evening he was served with divorce papers. He had no idea that I was leaving & I have cut off all contact with him. I will see him for the 1st in court in Jan. I have taken off my wedding rings, gotten a cute haircut, gone to a new church, and have an appt to get my nose pierced!! I am soooo FREE!!😁

Love yourself enough to leave them! The more you stay, the worse their behavior gets

LEAVE THEM WHILE THEY ARE WEAK. Don't stick around to kick them, or come back to say "I told you so." They recover too fast, don't underestimate them. Leave them while they are weak from your discard. And stay away, let them figure it out. You told them enough times.

I felt like it had nothing to with losing me, and more to do with the fact he couldn't stand losing. I think a ham sandwich could have taken my place. It wasn't 'painful' for him to lose me, and talking me into staying wasn't because he wanted or needed me, he just needed to "win". Once you realize that game, it's easier to let it all go. When I told my husband I wanted a divorce he wanted to know who I was seeing. Um, no one. I'm seeing NO ONE. He couldn't wrap his head around it. He needed there to be another man in my life to be mad about. The realization that I would rather be alone than be with him was more than his brain could accept. I honestly think that's the entire obsession, not winning you back, the obsession is just WINNING. After the love bombing and talking you back into the BS, they drop you like a bad habit because it was never about you. It was all about the WIN. He can confidently beat his chest again, because he got you to sell yourself out again, he got away with it again. Again again again. I swear once you start getting mad at yourself for buying into it instead of being mad at him for selling that crap, you will be free forever.

I had the courage today to end a relationship with a man who belittled me, degraded me, humiliated me in front of friends. The last straw was, we went to lunch, and he asked the bartender out in front of me. She looked at me and looked at him and said. Oh, hell no. I was so done at this point. My skin is crawling that I ever dated him.

They NEVER change

Information about personality disorders really needs to be taught in high school so people can see themselves and see others for what they are and know how to deal with it. It's far too common now and will be getting worse now with dating apps and social media.

Whether he is with a new supply or not, the narcissist will grow old ALONE

Change the access code to your life! LOVE IT!

It’s one of the most freeing experiences to finally be done with a narcissist who has drained you to the point where you’re physically sick. I’m so glad he didn’t marry me like I THOUGHT I wanted. I finally had enough after 14 years of back and forth and finally blocked him on every single form of communication we had. I’m now married for 2 years to a wonderful man and I am grateful to God everyday!

They can obtain.....but they NEVER maintain Spell check😊😳😊