Entitled Sister DEMANDS I Work for her FOR FREE - Reddit Podcast

For the first story, I'd tell my sister that if she wants my help, after everything she did, she can either pay me or kick rocks

My coworker's wife is an accountant and pretty much from around February to April he's a virtual single parent because of all the hours she has to work. It's just a fact of their life, not a problem. Some jobs are demanding all the time. Others have regular big crunch periods, while some have unpredictable busy times. My sister's a lawyer and she's helped me out a few times. Usually, it's just a phone call or two to let the other side know we have a lawyer on our side, so it's settled pretty quickly. It's great when family's use their skills to help each other out, but expecting them to drop their paying work for what is essentially a personal favor is not cool. Family goes both ways and accepting they have priorities outside the family is part of that

Story 2 AND 3 - Any friend who can just leave like that wasn't really a friend to begin with. F*** them. They can go immediately.

The last story - The thing that kills me is she wants him to just forgive and forget and TRUST her word that she's not talking to her ex anymore. i'd tell her straight up, "i'm sorry, but you cheated for 2 years, trust is out the window for now. maybe down the line i can trust what you say but for now i've going to be second guessing everytime you're on your phone or if you're really where you said you were." my cuz's ex-GF cheated on him and while he was willing to give her a second chance all she did was complain about how she couldn't go hang out with her guy friends without him worrying she was going to cheat on him again (the guy she cheated with was her "best friend"). her words to me excatly - "I know he's upset, but all i did was cheat once! when is he supposed to get over it?" I straight up told her that if that's how you feel about what you did then you don't deserve my cousin and you should stop complaining about this before i slap the shit out you.

You should never feel bad or weird about catching your spouse cheating. It's a good thing he looked at her messages. Because look at all of the stuff he found.

Oh so she had an emotional affair, tried to get rid of the evidence, and now gaslighting him...last story.

story 2 makes me realize im getting old, that is the dumbest trend i have ever heard of joke or not. I no longer understand the kids these days

All I learned is I want to be an accountant if they're making 650$ an hour.

She did cheat. She was cheating emotionally and that's just as bad. How dare she go behind his back and do that to him

In the 1 story : yeah not the jerk , my aunt is an accountant and i know that it's very expensive and takes a lot of time , so it's very selfish from the sister , the op is a good accountant most of them don't have this much patience.

Story one: families suck. When you own a business they all expect you to do things for them for free. Even if there are significant expenses involved. They expect you to cover them and give them your services for free.

I love this guy’s advices, He’s like that’s cool uncle you reach out for advice

In the 3rd story it also sounds like Kate's Boyfriend did that because they have been friends for so many years

The second story: BUT YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO CUT ME OFF

I'm so early Ariana still has some tears to cry.

Did everybody miss how the ex asked to come over and her only response was “I have to work.” Sounds like he was comfortable coming over and had probably done it before. She cheated. 100 percent got some of that D.

That is just gross of the sister to just want their sibling to work for her for free.

The story of the sister starting a business… okay, so, if she is not willing to do the work of setting the business up herself, that business is doomed to fail. Her family is doing her a favor by keeping a business bankruptcy off of her record. She clearly does not have what it takes to run her own business.

On story 1, the minute the sister interfered with work I would have been like “get out”.

The story about the op being bothered by their significant other acting “childish “…. To me it’s obvious that them doing all those things in public is THEIR WAY of keeping their anxiety at bay. And I think talking to them about it , as gently and open as possible, is the best thing to do because if it doesn’t get discussed how are you going to resolve it? If it’s bothering you this bad to send in the story, then you definitely need to discuss it with them. Otherwise you will gradually build up more and more resentment towards them. And if left unresolved that can become really insidious leaking out to every other part of your life. Communication is key! When in doubt, talk it out!