Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41
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Published 2023-08-07
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I’m 42, no husband, no friends, no social life… and looking back, I realize this is the BEST time of my life. Peace is priceless. Some may judge and think this is sad, but I love it.
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Introverts get their energy from being alone, extroverts get their energy from being in groups.
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I'm 81, alone my whole life. I'm still alive and kicking. Only child. I absolutely love being alone. I am my best friend.
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This comment section is so kind. Thank you. I turn 40 this week and I am single, no kids and my parents are in heaven. My friends are my 2 dogs and a bunny. They are loyal. I too look forward to work and errands. I think I’m still in shock how unbelievably cruel this world can be. I’ve been severely bullied my entire life but became worse as I grew older. Being alone is safe and can be very fun. Many blessings everyone. Life is what you make it. So make It fun. Even if it’s just for you and the animals🥰🥰🥰
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I'm 47, married, I have three real friends, and I don't go out much. People are really just a liability.
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I'm 48, burnt out with being socially deceptive, I'm a true introvert, no friends, no close family ties, and no social life. I look forward to work and running errands
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I'm 40, no wife, no kids, no social life. My true friends I can count on one hand. People are a liability. Solitude is a hard won ally. I'm very thankful for it.
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Whoever said more money more problems got it wrong... It's actually more people more problems. I'm a single father and every time I let some one in they become a distraction from what my calling is.
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Being alone and being lonely are 2 different things. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best move on the chessboard.
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I'm 39, no friends, no social life, no wife, no kids, no pets,... and I love my life. Sometimes is hard but it is for everyone. This is a bless my friend.
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I’m 49, happily divorced, kids grown, alone NOT lonely and happy as a clam. People are awful and hurtful. No energy for their mess. Plus, I must say, I’m the best friend and company I ever had. ❤
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Being betrayed by someone you thought was your friend or someone you thought loved you and would be there for you is one of the worst feelings one can experience. It is a hard gut punch.
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When you’re young, everybody wants to be your friend but when you’re older, It’s very hard to make friends
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I'm 43 and no friends, no partner, and no social life. After being with someone for over 20 years I found that a peace of mind is so priceless. At first I thought something was wrong with me because I really don't have a life. But Im so at peace with myself and Im ok with that.
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Im 44. No friends, no social life. Just work and home. I always wait for someone to talk to me instead of talking to people.
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No wife, no kids, sleep great, no stress, no health problems, no debt, no drama, peace is priceless!
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"Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41" --- you won life... stack your money, stay in shape, date at your leisure with no commitment & no kids & enjoy your peace until you die.
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"Be alone—that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born." - Nikola Tesla
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This is me as well. I cannot deal with crazy people in 2024. All they do is judge and hate on each other, They are full of pride and are narcissistic, cold hearted and careless. They hate the truth and will block you for speaking of it. Good for you for being a loner. I too am one. It helps me keep my peace.
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46, no wife/no kids and living my best life ever. Wouldn't have it any other way. God bless.
