The Dangers of Being a People Pleaser w/ Jackson Passaglia

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Published 2023-09-27
Are you a people pleaser? In this video we talk about the dangers of trying to make everyone happy. We'll talk about why it's so important to stay true to yourself and not let others' expectations dictate your life. Plus, tips on how to prioritize your own happiness. Subscribe :D

All Comments (21)
  • @nini-wx9ly
    I find it harder to be yourself as a girl bc boys can automatically be funny and ppl don't question it
  • @cheby4460
    bro u dont know how happy seeing jackson back is no bs no people pleasing just glad he back
  • @retro_bab3
    I once saw a quote that read ; "Put your needs before others' wants and put others' needs before your wants"
  • @sam42914
    legit good advice and great to hear jackson talk
  • @KaliMarr
    Um,jackson sounds like a poet from the Middle Ages and just talking to him audiences in his own play they both are truly inspiring, and I feel what they are discussing, and it's really interesting seeing great influencers just speak truth and not trying to gain more views and actually relate 😀 😊
  • @saraaaa747
    I could literally watch videos like this for hours and never get bored, thank you so much oml
  • @Lofouu
    Crazy how insightful a tiktaker can be
  • @mianuman2557
    I just turned 19 and I relate to this video so much and half of the stuff u guys spoke about I didn’t even realise I did. I feel like the idea of hiding your personality slightly out of fear of being judged or thinking that someone won’t like you hits so hard. I think u mentioned something like the shell of Samantha ure like “kinda Samantha” as an example but it’s so true like ppl have personalities but we conceal them sometimes without realising. I’m trying my best to be my most authentic self straight away when meeting people because I always find myself trying to adapt to their personalities subconsciously at first. I feel like anxiety has a lot to do with altering the way u present yourself to people also but I do think that I’m getting better. But I still got work to do with bettering myself, building my confidence and giving out into the world what I want in my life like u guys said. I’ve also never been in a relationship although really wanting to be in one so I feel like I could need self reflection on what I’m actually scared about when opening myself for that type of commitment .. a reason could be fear of not being good enough which u guys mentioned that I rlly get sm. ugh , this was such a good video :,((( it’s such good advice that could help a lot of young people especially this generation because shit like it’s fucked up fr
  • @makaylah2865
    you guys were actually spitting and gave really good advice, learning how to distinguish who’s your “friend” and who’s actually in your close circle is definitely first step to stop people pleasing!!!
  • @gavintiesing4570
    All of these videos are genuinely so great and making me think back on myself and I can relate so hard to every video, these are great thank you gamer.
  • @lulubells6611
    Yall are so awesome to listen to, this video is so honest and I really feel like I'm just listening in on your conversation, I really fw that quote "If you're a friend to everyone youre an enemy to yourself." I've never heard that before. Love your quiet confidence to talk about this stuff 🔥
  • @emmatorrance
    love these videos so so much, thankyou carrington and jackson <3
  • @embby99
    I feel like we're sitting around a firepit talking about deep shit lol
  • @donutdonut1303
    It’s refreshing to see men talk about this topic as a girl Not a lot of men don’t talk about this W video
  • I know it’s so overdone, but you and your friends should make a podcast. Y’all have things to say that I want to listen to.
  • @emma-jb8uj
    This is a beautiful video, thank you for this.
  • @leecohen6959
    Good to see you Jackson you have disappeared for a while, you 2 have good balance together it works