Halal Types Of Dating! - Does Marriage Kill Love? - Expert Shared Key Tips!

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Published 2023-04-29
Hello friends In today's video we will answer some questions about Islamic marriage. If you have some questions about marriage in your mind, this video is for you!

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00:00 Intro
01:00 Who is Yahya Ibrahim?
01:49 Dating is haram, but how are we going to know each other? What is the procedure to get married?
06:02 What about the procedure? Should we wait so that we know each other more?
09:45 So how can a person be sure to find the right person?
11:51 How was your experience, if it's not private?
14:28 "I like her but she's not a religious person." Will it get better after we get married?"
15:46 Would you marry your wife if she was not religious?
17:14 Why do spouses become distant from each other over time? Isn't it possible to preserve life like in the early days? Does marriage kill love?
19:48 What would you advice to your daughter, when she's about to marry?

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All Comments (21)
  • @Gold3n7
    this is a video that none of us wanted but needed.
  • @eigenvector24
    During the last Ramadhan, I've been focusing my pray around marriage and now I'm watching this. Alhamdulillah 🤲🏼
  • Marriage should be considered as an act of worship so as to protect the cohesion of the family. May Allah be with us.🤲
  • @basrinosirat9522
    5 stages of marriage; 1. In love stage 2. Honeymoon stage 3. Conflict stage 4. Pull up stage 5. Autopilot stage
  • @zenaadams5986
    Me and my partner have been together before we’ve practiced Islam, we live together and when we decided to both practice Islam and get closer to allah, we decided to give up our relationship but we’re still “together” but not together, we’re both keeping our distance and started working more (as specially him since he’s been looking for a job but it’s been difficult) in order for us to have a halal relationship/marriage, I’m Kurdish, he’s Nigerian, he’s so humble and he loves and fears allah, only problem is my mum isn’t happy about us because she doesn’t like the fact that he’s black, my dad and brother are happy with him, but my mum is hesitant when I mentioned that I like him and I want to marry him in the future when allah SWT inshallah allows it
  • @Lana12561
    I was in two minds about re-marrying. Now I’m relieved to know that it is not wajib when you are not ready and when you don’t have someone you can accept his appearance, financial/ social/ mental compatibility and Deen. Excellent teaching video
  • @dah8215
    I am in my 11th year of marriage(10 years and 5months ) and the last five months was the most testing time for me. And this video solved my problem just like that in 21 minutes. Alhamdulilaah ( the most helpful, hopeful, reassuring video i have ever seen on this topic) the other marriage problem related videos have made me sader than i was at the time of listening. they added my heartbreak into more heartbreaks. jazakumul Allahu khayran for your clear explanation made me see my faults and their solutions.
  • @izabelak.31
    I am very surprised, but I find these advices actually useful for modern, non-religious dating (especially the part with asking other people for opinion).
  • @yayamanfly
    🌹1.Don't insult (Q49:11) 🌹2.Speak kindly (Q2:83) 🌹3.Speak gently (Q17:28) 🌹4.Don't backbite (Q49:12) 🌹5.Speak the Truth (Q3:17) 🌹6.Keep your oaths (Q5:89) 🌹7.Do not be arrogant (Q7:13) 🌹8.Restrain your anger (Q3:134) 🌹9.Think good of others (Q24:12) 🌹10.Don't be rude to parents (Q17:23) 🌹11.Don't make fun of others (Q49:11) 🌹12.Turn away from ill speech (Q23:3) 🌹13.Walk in a humble manner (Q25:63) 🌹14.Keep your trusts & promises (Q23:8) 🌹15.Don't claim yourself to be pure (Q53:32) 🌹16.Do not even approach adultery (Q17:32) 🌹17.Don't call others with bad names (Q49:11) 🌹18.Remember Allah and be thankful (Q2:152) 🌹19.Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (Q25:63) 🌹20.Don't ask for repayment for favours (Q76:9) 🌹21.If enemy wants peace, then accept it (Q8:61) 🌹22.Salute the Prophet (saw), do salawats (Q33:56) 🌹23.Call ˹all˺ people to the pilgrimage (hajj) (Q22:27) 🌹24.Give charity /spend (in the way of Allah) (Q2:254) 🌹25.Don’t criticize small donation/charity of others (9:79) 🌹26.Be mindful of Allah and be with the truthful (Q9:119) 🌹27.Do not consume one another’s wealth unjustly (Q2:188) 🌹28.Stand firm for justice  even if it is against yourselves(Q4:135) 🌹29.Don't remind others of the favours you done to them (Q2:264) 🌹30.Return a greeting in a better manner or at least the same (Q4:86) 🌹31.Do not be excessive, extravagant, don't spend wastefully (Q17:26) 🌹32 Life of this world is no more than the delusion of enjoyment (Q3:185) 🌹33.Performing prayers (salat/namaz) is a duty on the believers (Q4:103) 🌹34.Turn away from trash talk like gossip, slandering people etc.(Q28:55) 🌹35.Fasting is prescribed for you—as it was for those before you (Q2:183) 🌹36.Don't Bribe authorities in order to devour a portion of others’ property(Q2:188) 🌹37.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q8:3) 🌹38.Establish prayer (salat/namaz) and donate from what was provided (Q14:31) 🌹39.Establish prayer (salat/namaz), pay alms-tax, and bow down with those who bow down (Q2:43) 🌹🕋40.Know that this worldly life is no more than play, amusement, luxury, mutual boasting, and competition in wealth and children.(Q57:20
  • @ifaamz
    ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما ❤
  • I have my wife and until I have my six childrens 3sons plus 3doughters.i never saw such a nice Person like this explaining everything regarding marital affairs.Jaza Ka Allah. Respect from Pakistan.
  • Our Lord! Bless us with pious spouses and offspring, who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous🤲
  • Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said "Whoever fasts Ramadan and then follows it with six days of Shawwal will be (rewarded) as if he had fasted the entire year." 🌺Don't forget to fast six days in Shawwal 🌺
  • @tigerfangs87
    that list of haram to wajib marriages is very interesting. I wish i learned that in school. Jazakum Allah kheir
  • @7GreyPearl
    From 2 days I am having dream of my marriage and now this video.Ya Allah is this the sign. Sub-hanAllah
  • @aquard2558
    I prayed for so long and every single day almost. My prayers been excepted and Allah brought m to this video Mashallah. Alhamdulillah for everything ❤
  • @uzairamod1239
    This is some high quality Islamic content that should be go viral
  • @nadiajr1500
    Thank you, Towards Eternity for this interview. This is the best advice about the topic that I've discovered so far. Can you please invite him for other videos, such as how to have a lasting marriage? I believe many people would appreciate it.
  • @t-wonders1230
    Alhamdulillah i've never dated anyone. I'm 18 years old and i'm a girl. I'm only focusing on how to maintain a good relationship with Allah