what we wish we knew before having a baby | Loumed

Ahmed trying to hold his mouth from talking at 9:20 has me dying of laughter. Allahumma Barik, such a beautiful couple. May Allah shower you two and your families with blessings and love 🤍

I watched this video with such focus as if I were married and expecting a child haha!! JazakumUllah for sharing these beautiful insights with us and highlighting the reality of getting a child <3<3<3

We will never know the struggle our parents went through until we become parents. Allahmdulillah for both of my parents! May Allah (swt) grant them jannahtul firdus

22:28 i'm confused as to why he can't change a nappy? lol

I just had my first baby and was severely struggling with a sleep schedule too. I read this book called Precious Little Sleep and it helped a lot. There are many gentle sleep training methods you can do when baby is still young, and they are actually harder to train when they are older because their habits are more settled. Check out the book or audiobook when u have time!

Love listening to Louisa’s advices. It’s on point, esp about the “big feelings”

There are many different baby cries besides hunger. They cry to get their nappy changed, they cry from gas discomfort, they cry because they need a nap. all those things a father can 1000% help with and should in order to bond with his child. the burden of parenthood is for 2. Being a present husband is great but it is necessary to also be a present dad in more ways than just a provider! This works for louisa and ahmed may Allah preserve them but just know for most its best for your relationship if you are a more hands on father!

i subscribed recently and binge watched all the vids so far and now this is my favourite yt channel. thanks for being such wonderful role models mashallah allahumabarik. may Allah bless you and your family always and thanks for the video xx

May Allah SWT reward you for always sharing such genuine advice. Jummah Mubarak 💝.

Finally a sit down video 😊. Alhamdullilah

aw i love louisa and ahmed, favorite couple out there, allahumma barik!!!!

I really enjoyed Ahmed explanation of how he was raised to earn things and how it shaped him. As a single mother to a son I would appreciate it so much if you and Louisa did a video or series of videos about how you were raised. The ways your mother raised you to become the muslim gentleman you are today Allahuma baarik. Please consider this video when you feel back up to it. Louisa allah ikoun m3aki ou isabrek 3la marth jedatek ❤

jazakallahu khairan for the amazing advice. it'll be put into use in a couple of years insha'Allah

@11:30 May Allah reward you for this. As a guy it was really good to hear from Ahmeds perspective and what he went through for his childs sake.

Omg two videos in one week am I dreaming my favorite people on the planet how are you guys unfortunately I can’t watch it because I’ve exam but will later Love you guys 🥺🤍✨

Sister Luisa is so sweet and pious mashallah BarakAllah 😭😭, Indeed she is a naymat of Allah subhana wa ta'ala to brother Ahmed

Ahmed I feel you Jazakallahu khairan for sharing ❤

May Allah bless you and give you Sabr for any situation you facing ❤

beautiful family mashaAllah the advice and including Allah constantly in the video is beautifully. I believe the same thing about the baby crying, but once all the needs have been met yes around 8-9 months you can start letting them cry to sleep train them so you can start having night times to sleep. recommend sleep training it takes about 3-4 nights of pain for parents but after that they sleep the whole night and its like night and day

You know guys when I watch you guys I feel comfort and peace