When the narcissist realizes your supply was unique and you cannot be replaced

As a Super Empath, I may be replaceable physically, but I will never be replaced spiritually.

The discard was brutal but I’m grateful because I would’ve hung on forever, supporting him Emotionally, trying and hoping for him to see my worth.

I Hope he never find supply like me. I don't wish that abuse on anyone.

You also have to be very careful bc they will breadcrumb you and use the push pull just to keep your supply around in case it doesn't work out with the new supply.

Even Jesus had his Judas....

My husband of 12 years brutally discarded me for the secretary from his work. These people are so impulsive, malicious, vile, liars, cheaters....but hes shacked up with her still so it must be great supply. He used me up and threw our entire marriage in the trash. Its a sick game for both of them.

He went back to the “back burner” 📲💰 👰‍♀️🏆💔😢 Just wish I would have known what was really going on and left years ago!! What a waste!!!! Sadly I really loved him he was my husband and it was all a lie 💔👰‍♀️ What a devastating, heartbreaking, truth and lesson!!! I am so grateful to be the one who discarded…..I didn’t know anything about Narcissism or about my husband it seems!! Thanks for wisdom and love 💔🏆👰‍♀️

I hope he forgets about me never come back.

Still breathing and pushing forward in peace and prayer 🕊 ✝️🙏

I spent thirty years as a public image wife.... he ( the Narcissist ) seemed to love that, but in hindsight, our relationship was very, very superficial. He had to scramble for new primary when I kicked him out and wound up with a side supply that he spoke to and treated like a service animal ( I was able to view all their texts on Verizon online ). She seems to be a doormat/saint. You'd think he'd be happy with someone who accepts him as he really is and not have to fake anymore, but he just seems really bitter

I’m sad but I know this too shall pass.

After 5 &1/2 years with my ex covert narcissist I started to resent her as she would not be fair and spend time in my life with my son or take an interest in my hobbies or help me with my house and chores. t was all her way or the highway and I got sick of it , so I stepped back. I stopped making her beautiful meals I stopped cleaning her house, fixing her house servicing her car, fixing her car fixing her kids cars. I stopped mowing her lawns doing the edges. Doing the watering doing the electrical doing the plumbing. I stopped everything. And stepped back to see what would happen. So she went and found herself a new man and I left her for good. I'm glad her life will now be so much more expensive without me doing everything for her and she will never, ever find a man that does everything I did for her, right down to bringing her a long stem single red rose with gyp in cellophane every week. She had my heart and soul forever. And all she had to do was be fair and she couldn't do it.

I don’t think they can think that way can they! They just see you as something that they can easily replace, particularly female narcissists if they’re even moderately attractive have soo many option. Will it end better than with you? No! They’re narcissists and that’s the one thing they’re completely unwilling to change.

Irreplaceable, a very nice word. I don't know if I was one to him. But it still makes me feel good. I didn't have much to offer him apart from my very empathetic towards him. He was unable to get me to love him. But I liked him enough to spend time together. It was a long distance relationship. He was still studying at that time. I found someone who I really love, and left him. Completely no contact by circumstances. Have a reasonable life with my late husband. Just found out on social media that he has passed away, at the beginning of the year, the anger and bitterness were flash back. Don't know who to turn to. Somehow I came to know about narcissist on twitter which leading me to YouTube. That helps me to understand what was happening between me and him. 33 years ago the tormented still around. Thinking that I might be an irreplaceable, is a consolation. Thanks Joe, looking forward to your VDO every day.

But… am I unique… to him? … Aren’t I just an appliance? A service?

I was that light and love my mother could not create for herself. I’m gone now, 3 years no contact. I took my love and light w me!

I was the A+ supply and he wanted to come back but it was a no for me and so he settled for the new D- supply mommy type, servant, caregiver, taxi service. The D- supply spent less and less time with him. The narcissist had developed many health issues and fell asleep in death by himself alone. Sad outcome for him.

narcissitic is spiritual warfare bigtime. i don't think he knows he's a narcissist. he was so selfish. but sure put on a good show to be believable that he was a good guy.

I got discarded after finding us a place for a winter rental it's a long long long story but I gave my heart and soul to this person and feel so deep in love with him but then on the last day of our winter rental but I found on his iPad he was searching up porn which for a whole year he was saying he never did even though I was open to it and as soon as I exposed him to do on that he left said f you ghosted me and it's the been the most horrific relationship I have ever been through

I did talk to his cousin about 3 weeks ago and she just made it sound like the family was talking in like the relationship didn't and we went our separate ways when that is the furthest thing from the truth. I felt horrified I felt like I was being lied about on so many different levels