The ✨Black Wife✨Effect

Straight to the point black women don’t degrade black men every chance they get because of who they are dating.

Because many Black men date outside of their race and other men out of spite towards Black women. We applaud Black women with white men because for decades Black men have told us that we weren’t desirable by other races. (I have had random convos with BM online back in the days who swore this was true) When in actuality, we were rejecting their (other men) advances and now we are happy to see that we’re no longer collectively brainwashed into one sided race loyalty.

So tired of explaining this because when black men date outside y’all tend to spitefully put black women down while doing so

There was not 1 mention of a black man in any of these videos that’s the difference between BW and BM.

The difference is black men will bash and talk down on black women for and in front of their nonblack woman while Black women can get with a nonblack man and won’t bash or talk down on them.

The issue seems to be the cliche that BM put WW on a pedestal over BW. BW to this day don’t really put WM on a pedestal and tend to date for genuine connection vs a fetish. This is not always the case but that’s the common thought. I know most BW coming up in the 90’s-00’s did not want anything to do with a WM but BM jumped at the chance for a WW…and it was a slap in the face. That’s why a lot of sisters are now saying F it. I’m gonna let Brad take me out because I’m tired of waiting. And statistics show BM/WW couples are the most likely to divorce and BW/WM are the least likely to divorce.

I personally don't frown upon interracial dating. But some black men bash black women to their non black women and she cosigns his sentiments out of her own insecurities. Dont get it twisted some white women have issues with black women dating their race of men its just not spoken about alot or highlighted. Its the same thing though. And some black men don't like black women dating white or non black men either. To each their own is what I say. The bashing of black women needs to stop though. Only the weak self hating black men bash us.

Black men feel some time of way about black women dating outside their race

BW & WM unions don't seem to be grounded in fetishizing. Those unions are the longest lasting of ALL unions.

Nobody with sense is stressing over BM dating out because we all get the same BM. It’s 2024. BW don’t care😎

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Actually i have seen black men AND women get heat from dating a white person. I don’t see the issue, love who you love so long as both parties are consenting adults Personally, I don’t care who people date. The only time i take issue is when the person dating outside their race puts down a whole group of their race (or any other race) to justify their reason for doing so.

Black woman,white man- both are top tier White woman, black man- both are busted. Usually trailer division and a pookie

Bm don’t just get their ww and go be happy. Bm bash bw cause they prefer ww. Bw don’t care about bm dating ww but will defend themselves against the narrative that ww are better.

Most BM (not all) tend to bash BW to their non-black girlfriends and wives. There have been too many examples of this out there.

She's beautiful and would make anyone look better next to her. Lol

I mean my wife is black and the amount of shit we have had to deal with is insane but we also lived in the south.

Well, be honest. Which gender bashes the other when they're with another ethnic group? Be honest...

Although it goes beyond just looks,to be honest most of the non-black men (white, Chinese, Indians, Arabian etc) featured in this trend are all really quite handsome.attractive men. It just shows that not only do these non-black men clearly exercise good taste in choosing a partner but so do these black women who choose to be with these men

Black women are beautiful ❤️ I'm a white woman.