How I Learned to Be More Assertive and STOPPED Being a PUSHOVER

Being a push over diminishes your character as a person. I started my assertive journey and I’m loosing relationships, yet I do feel more peaceful. This is inspiring me to continue what I have been doing :)

Assertiveness prevents being bullied in life. Great advice you shared.

I really liked what you said "you are tired of being invisible. you wanne be valued. you want people to recognise you" and "I knew that if I wanted to be treated differently I needed to set new boundaries". Honestly i thought it was other people's fault that i was not value but i was not valued because i did not value myself and did not demand to be valued. I wish ofcourse that people should value others not matter how much self worth they have but they generally don't!!! If you do not respect yourself they do not respect you that much unfortunately you have to claim that. Life is a struggle...

Dear Kara, It is like you are describing exactly what I am going through... can't thank you enough!

Are you a passive communicator? Do you think assertiveness can help you too?

Amazing you! I hope to implement some of these assertiveness in my communication skills. Thank you!

I can't tell you how thankful I am for this video! Thank you so much Kara

Your experience describes me exactly wow your story is amazing !!!

It’s such a supportive lecture!🏆🎸

Excellent video! I love all the videos you have. Thanks for sharing.

Excellent information

I needed this

This was great. The next step is to role play assertive scenarios.

Good to be assertive do the work in the right way or in a proper direction even you are pressurise by certain people if you are doing job under a heavy pressure or under some type worries then you could not able to do focus on that so first of all you have to set your boundaries then make sure your work is neither tough not easy for you and when you are busy in your work always focus on your goal after setting the boundaries of you try to do all task even it is out of your boundaries the you could not do the task even your own so be passionate and do the work in a good way .

I want to thank you whit all my ♥️ for be like you R !

This is such a helpful video. Can you recommend and books to learn More of these strategies? Also, what do you do when you are assertive but others also are being assertive and both opinions are reasonable options? How to assertively give way to others wants or opinions? Like you want Chinese and they want Italian?

Bravo. But I always think that my super obsessiv ego self need controll. But you describe right situation.. I understand what do you mean. When you says "This people" them är only our mirror and reflect us self or unconscious part of us. So yes good to know that everything is inside myself to work by. ❤

Im able to communicate my ideas freely assertively

Love the topics you cover.. So relevant..

Thank you Kara for valuable tips. Do you have any suggestion on how to practice the assertiveness?