Narcissistic Family: Gaslighting Phrases They Use To Manipulate You
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Published 2024-08-07
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Last thing my mom said that led me to go no contact was āyou need to get over the things that happened when you were a kid, I already haveā
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It is amazing how narcs irrespective of gender, age, ethnicity, demography have the same pattern.
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Self-trust is so important. In this day and age, weāre constantly being bombarded with fake news, fake people, fake everything! Having a core sense of self and believing your own reality is the only way to stay sane.
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My narcissistic motherās favorite phrase after an argument, āIām over it, you should be tooā. Never in my life did I hear an apology.
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I was constantly told growing up that I was too sensitive and overly sensitive. To this day, I get so triggered when I hear those words.
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My sisters are great ones for saying, "I never said that." I went no-contact w/ them 25-years-ago and don't miss them one bit. In the past five years, it's You-Tube channels like Jerry Wise and others, that have helped me see that my intuition was right all along.
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For most of my life, i thought there was something wrong with me; but after being in therapy for nearly two years, i realize the problem lies with my family.
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My favourite "you are mean. " After basically bullying me my entire childhood.
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1: "You're too sensitive" 2: "I'm your mother / father" 3: "That never happened" 4: "You're imagining things" 5: "Stop being so dramatic" 6: "You're stupid.." 7: "I never said that" 8: "Everyone agrees with me" 9: " You're overreacting" 10: "Why are you making things up" 11: "It was just a joke" 12: "You could never get things straight" I've heard all of these and its time to leave my relatives alone.
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Why are local therapists not this real and honest? Iāve been to private and community places they are awful
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When they call you crazy or stupid, just ask them why they want to continue a relationship with a stupid or crazy person? Or if they call you abusive or cruel, ask them why they want so badly a relationship with someone who is abusive or cruel.
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Oh my mom loves to say, āYou talk about the past too much, think of positive things, happy thingsā And Iām just standing there with my eye twitching, sometimes both. The layers of sheer bullshit they manage to pack into a simple statement has to be an art form I swear.
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Hereās one - they want you to just forgive the past but never acknowledge just exactly what youāre forgiving. In other words, just forget. Itās the narcissistās lobotomy.
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My narc mother made up her own word for lying--she "disremembers" things that she feels are unpleasant. No, she lies about them ever happening to sooth her ego.
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As someone who is completely blind, autistic and has CPTSD, I had a narcissistic stepmom who would pull cruel jokes on me because of my blindness and autism. Things like opening doors wide enough in hopes I would run into them. Sneak up behind me when I didnāt notice and do things like step on my hair, poke my neck or face, grab and yank me and scare me. Pulling chairs out from where I was going to sit in hopes Iād plop on the ground. If I got mad about those jokes, sheād say things like, ātake a joke. Youāre so sensitive. There are people out there called assholes. You just need to learn to deal with it and know people are going to do that.ā As a special needs individual, NO! Itās not a joke! You donāt mock a blind person, and you donāt mock an autistic individual for having high intense emotions.
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4:23 "Everybody in the family knows you are a problem". Really, Intresting. š¤ When i was younger i was convinced all they gashlighted me was true and real š³ I was so naiv
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(While i was clearly upset &/or crying) My mother always used to say to me āweāre not picking on you, weāre just teasingā š
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My Dad often said "You're over reacting", meaning that my feelings overwhelmed him.
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Bro, youāre a YouTube sensation.
