When the narcissist becomes immediately disempowered after they discard you

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“You will search for me in another person. I promise. And you will never find me”

A narcissist stagnates at level -1. They never admit when they're wrong. They don't learn from any of their mistakes. They don't try to be better. So to make the playing field equal for them their goal is to bring others down. Be it family, friends, coworkers, partners, etc. Learn from the experience. Let them go. Keep doing better everyday. The more you do that the better you will be growing away from level -1 and the further you will be away from them. And when you're at level 100+ or even if you're at 0 and they try to come back in to your orbit, just know that they're only there to try to bring you back to level -1 and that's not your level.

Control-Alt-Delete Power down, pull the plug, flip the breaker… go for a walk, run, drive and never look back.

I thank you Kindly Joe, you’ve helped me get through a very very tough time in my life.

Be formless, shapeless, like water. 🌊 Great video! I’m 4 months into NC and I try to think of the process this way. I let my emotions flow freely and then keep moving forwards. Even if it’s painfully slow, it’s still progress. ❤️

Thank you for peaceful protest ❤ Always amazing to listen to your thoughts and experience. Love and Respect from Russia 🇷🇺 God Bless

I’ve lost myself

Good topic. I’m a professional narc detector. So I enjoy your topics.

Manipulation. Conditioning...along with the whole TOXIC alphabet we have to learn =Radical Acceptance.. Stay Educated AND Dedicated....❤...

Yay, you’re back!

Great to hear your voice Joe

"Going with the flow."...means....stop giving a f**k. Yep, it's really just that simple.

I was doing so much better a few days ago when i went no contact ...today i fell hard i opened the phone and read all jis oast messages blaming me for the discard ...i text him saying Thinking of you.....he wrote back rather quickly YES i miss you too Second message he wrote Hello Deborah I didnt write back and all day i felt like shit and statted panicking again and having anxiety i feel i went backwards in just seconds I shut the phone off again

True words spoken.🙏🙏

I was zapped on a hoover 2 mnths later (he said he slept well & I was drained), he tapered off after a few days again. 😢 I genuinely fell for him. 💔

Just love your analogies…your delivery…always giving words of wisdom…love you Joe….thankyou as always 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

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Thank you Joe ❤

Thanks!