How To Love Without Attachment | Buddhism In English

Best statement i have heard "i need you to be happy and if that doesnt include me then thats ok" unconditional love lets go ❤

Love without attachment is the true sign of self-acceptance and self-love. It's only when we accept and love ourselves that we can love freely.

No one is permanent Everyone is suffering on their own world U can't control anyone If you love someone in the way of attachment you get hurt, If you love someone without attachment you love your own life ❤🙏

- love is wishing other's happiness - attachment is wishing your own happiness from others; wanting to be with someone forever and not let go; over-protecting, holding on, and controlling someone; being afraid of losing someone - everyone lives in their own private world, everyone needs freedom - you can control how you live in your life - 3 truths in life on how to love and be compassionate: (1) no one is permanent (everything is subjective to change), (2) everyone is suffering in their own world, and (3) not everyone is under your control

Nothing lasts forever. Attachments cause suffering. Everything is subject to change. - Lord Buddha

Love: you need to be happy Attachment: you need to make me happy

I hurt someone because of my past and I used to think I’m in love him with completely. But I realised that I am more attached to him than in love. Right now we are in separation and because of my attachment I was trying to take control and not able to let go of the things I can’t control. This video opened my eyes. I am trying to change and be a better person. Specially when it comes to love. I want to love unconditionally and selflessly. Affirm.

These are wise words. That's the holy truth. Love is freedom. Attachment is not. That's why when someone wants to control other persons, they will lose them. People should understand this, so they won't get hurt. Thank you so much for sharing it! 🙏

When you come from a childhood lacking security and emotional support you often end up looking for it in a partner as an adult, hence the attachment, looking for a partner to fill the role a parent should have filled. Wish I could have learned this lesson you teach today back when I was 20 years old. I do now know how to love without attachment. It frees both yourself and the other person.🙏

' No one in this world is permanent ' .

That definition of love is easily the best I’ve heard. Really applies to both romantic and platonic love

i recently broke up with someone i loved with all my heart. when we were dating, i had the mentality of love without attachment. however, the more and more i realized we wouldnt work, i started getting attached. consciously, i didnt know it wouldnt work, but my subconscious knew. it knew as soon as the first hint came to my attention, no matter how much i tried to deny it, i knew it wouldnt work. i have known them all of my life, so its hard to let them go, but i hope that soon i can set aside my anger and wish them happiness again like i used to. they truly deserve to be happy.

l lost both my parents this year. My dad left us in April whilst my mum left us in July. Thank you Namo Buddhaya

"No one is gonna live forever" is the most beautiful phrase in my mind, Thank you, Thera.

In this 7 years of relationship, i never got the answer for my heart breaks......thanks for changing my life for good! It means a lot❤

I am very happy about now because when i am suffering i watch these videos and get motivation to leave that suffer ....... As well as these topics are the most related to my day to day life ............ Thank you so much and pray to do more and more these service for all over the people to heal there pain .......

I m married since 20 years and it's now through your teachings I m able to understand the true meaning of loving a person without attachment... Thank you namo buddhaya

I'm a teen. I understand the things nicely thank u 🙇‍♀️ jai bhim namo buddha 💛🤗

Love without attachment is the choice to love and respects others freedom. Respecting and honoring their choices. I love this message. The brief or long moments should be cherished.

One of the most compassionate things we can do is love freely, without conditions or attachments. It is painful to think that me or my own child will have to part one day but it is so liberating to understand that this one fact makes every day spent in love and appreciation of my child, a great gift!!! When the time comes for either of us to journey on, it would be kind to say thank you to the soul that befriended mine while we lived together! Thank you for your beautiful lesson Bhadanta. 🙏🏽🌸🌿🕊️