My Wife's Secretly Messaging Another Man
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Published 2024-05-31
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All Comments (21)
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The dude blew it. She's not angry anymore. Not upset anymore. She's just done. And once a woman is done, it's really hard to come back from that.
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He gave her 3 chances, she gave him thousands.
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I’ve been an asshole narcissist, realized I was losing my wife, love bombed her, it didn’t work…. How do I continue to control her emotionally? 🙃
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The second he thinks he's won her back 100% , he'll start abusing her again.
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“I’ve been a jerk to my wife for years. And now she doesn’t like me anymore. What do I do?” 😂
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If a woman tells you she thinks she's falling out of love with you... She's been done for a while!
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This caller seems to have adopted the vocabulary of a self aware, self critical person, while at the same time being the complete opposite.
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If he talks over Dr. John this much, imagine what he does to his wife. He’s probably never let her finish a sentence.
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He doesn’t really care about his wife. He just doesn’t want to be alone
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I left after 15 years of being treated poorly. There is nothing he could have said or done at that point to make me stay. NOTHING! I cried for one day. Then my life improved dramatically.
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Once he realizes there is another dude in the picture, then he wants to do better. Not before. She deserves better.
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Don’t string this guy along. She’s done. He can’t even shut up to listen for 2 seconds. I can’t stand him after 2 minutes, imagine 14 years
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"I pushed her away by being so close to her". Umm, no sir, you pushed her away by emotionally abusing her for 14 years.
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“i guess i’ll give you a 3rd chance… even tho you keep lying🙄” SIR SHE GAVE YOU 14 YEARS OF CHANCES WTF
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"After 15 years of abuse, now that there's hope for her to leave, I'm treating her right for 2 weeks STRAIGHT and brought her flowers once... I'm such a nice guy" Deadass this belongs in r/niceguys
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This guy is love bombing his wife after years of abuse and belittlement in order to make her stay. His wife deserves better and needs to leave him.
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After 14 years of abuse she's emotionally checked out. The marriage is over. You only saw her worth when someone else showed her she was valuable and beautiful.
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This caller is weird. He’s doing a lot of agreeing with and appeasing on this call. It feels very strange.
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Did he really just say, I don't want to be nice to her because it might backfire if she's still talking to that guy? Child, the nerve. 😂🤦🏿♀️
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Wow, how nice of him to “give her another chance” after 14 years of verbal abuse resulted in her seeking the attention of someone else. She’s already fed up, and I don’t blame her. You’re too late, my dude.
