Dad Says No to Walking Me Down the Aisle and Chooses a Hawaii Trip with His Favourite Daughter...

OP’s Dad: “Oh woe is me, boo hoo, the daughter I neglected doesn’t want anything to do with me. How could this happen?! I’ve only prioritized her sister over her every chance I can get, and now she’s cutting me off? Who could have seen this coming? And now even my family is upset with me for my shit choices and I’m still oblivious.” OP lost both her parents the day her mother died.

It's hard to understand how people can favor one child among many. This caused a 9-year-old child near my house to run away from home (for more than a month now). The parents of that child only realized they were favoring their second child (3 years old) and abandoned the 9 year old child, not paying any attention to that child.

Her uncle is a real one. Thats perfect and i dont blame her. Not the asshole

Whole family should be putting the dad and Katie on full blast about how self-centered and selfish Katie is for obviously making sure he couldn't be at the wedding by booking that trip.

I love how the father is the one who is upset at op for not talking to him anymore, yet he's the one who suggested having no contact for a while.

Sister called OP a manipulator... ah, good ol' projecting. And no, it's absolutely not a coincidence that she chose the day of the wedding to make that trip.

"You can't even let your sister have me for one day." "Yes. BUT THAT ONE DAY IS MY WEDDING DAY." Could have delayed it until after the wedding if he was willing to do it before.

I think the two of them deserve eachother. She can keep manipulating him and bleeding him dry, just to cut him off from everyone else and make sure he never gets to retire. And he can coddle and spoil and enable her so she never accomplishes anything or builds her own life or meaningful relationships. A toxic match made in hell.

"I can't be a bad daughter to my dad" What dad ?? You have no dad, love. You lost both parents the day your mother passed.

Wait so there was no compromise from his side because "your sis is depressed" but suddenly when the uncle was involved "I'll convince her to do it another day, let ME walk you, not that guy" and then has the audacity to call her actions immature ?! A dad that is more moved by his animosity with his twin than by his daughter's feelings, yikes.

OP's Uncle is a blessing in disguise

Sister: how dare you make us look bad with lies. OP: lies? Did you go to Hawaii? Sis: yes... OP: did you go there to scatter the ashes of your cat Sis:...yes... OP: and...what day was that it was scheduled? Sis:...your wedding day? OP: right. So where did I lie?

Watch Katie is going to screw up horribly in the future, and they're going to be crawling back. Op shouldn't allow them access to her even if it is an "emergency" since they're only going to try and guilt trip her into helping fix the mess they started.

I feel like if the sister was actually really depressed, she wouldn't have responded to OP the way she did. It's a testament to the relatives knowing how the sister really is, because they would have understood if she was so depressed she couldn't come out of the house. It's the fact that she chose to do what she did on OP wedding day that they came at her like that😂

Katie dislike op because op has her life put together and Katie hates that she knows op did everything herself to get where she is Op dad just a piece of shit and op should never be in contact with him and Katie Op should show off her life online to piss off Katie and op dad 😅

Funny how the father says Op can’t let Katie have him for one day when she has him all the time. The dad made it very clear where his priorities lie when it comes to his children. This is the consequence of playing favorites.

The sister was mad because the truth made her look terrible lol

The day the sister chose for scattering her cat's ashes tells you everything you need to know. She could have chosen any day, but she chose her sister's wedding day. It had to be that day, too. The cat had been dead and cremated for weeks already, so time at that point is no longer of the essence. But she chose her sister's wedding day. And their dad agreed.

Dad: I'm choosing your sibling over you. OP: Same Dad: Wait, you can't do that!

So I also had my Dad choose his AP over going to my wedding. He had cheated on my stepmom with the mother of my youngest sibling; and I had invited him but told him his AP could not attend since I had both my mother and stepmother who had raised me there. He called my mom the day of the wedding and told her he wasn’t coming. Didn’t even have the gall to tell me. But he also picked his AP over the birth of his only grandchild; I almost died twice having her. Now he’s lost everything, has to rely on my mother to help him raise his 8 yr old child because he has no one else that’ll help him. My mom is only helping him because of the kid; otherwise she’d had told him to F off.