8 Signs You Don't Trust Yourself
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Published 2020-09-29
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All Comments (21)
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Do you struggle with self doubt?
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:_PSIPsi:1. You always 2nd guess yourself 1:00 :_PSIPsi:2. You overthink everything 1:34 :_PSIPsi:3. You trust other opinions more than your own 2:10 :_PSIPsi:4. You don't validate your own experiences 2:40 :_PSIPsi:5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23 :_PSIPsi:6. You try to control everything 4:00 :_PSIPsi:7. You struggle to recognize your worth 4:28 :_PSIPsi:8. You're overly self critical 4:59 Have a gr8 day every1.
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Here we are sitting on a couch thinking about how horrible was my tone in a conversation with a girl that I talked 4 years ago.
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Honestly psy2go really be knowing how I feel and it's starting to get to me 😭
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When you have all of the signs....
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I imagine a lot of people with self-trust issues probably learned it from someone else growing up. When you get treated as if everything you do is wrong and you can't make decisions on your own for a long time, you come to believe it's the truth, when the truth is the person telling you those things was likely either using it to manipulate and control you or was projecting their own insecurities onto you.
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Me clicking on this video knowing damn well I don’t trust myself but just wanna confirm anyway
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I experience this everyday, I'm glad others can relate. Even if I get any answer right, I always check it on the web.
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I lack self-love and self-confidence, I just feel that I'm just a terrible human being and I'm just a burden to everyone. And because of that I feel like I NEED to help people around me, but at the same time I feel that I'm going to mess up and everyone will judge me, cause I'm not good enough. It's just, painful when people say good things about me, because I just feel like they're lying or/and making fun of me, and that just makes everything worse.
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Summary: (Update added timestamp :D) 1. You always second guess yourself 1:00 2. You overthink everything 1:34 3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own 2:10 4. You dont validate your own experiences 2:40 5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23 6. You try to control everything 4:00 7. You struggle to recognise your worth 4:28 8. You're overlycritical of yourself 4:59 There you go :)
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Oh yeah, I definitely don’t trust myself. Or most people for that matter.
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When you don't trust yourself, you might feel uncomfortable spending time looking inward. You might try to keep busy all day by constantly getting involved in activities or thinking about small things outside of yourself. Break the habit of looking away from yourself by patiently looking inward👍
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I thought being an indecisive, insecure, closed perfectionist, pessimist and overthinker were part of my character... i guess there's a real reason why i've been like this for these past few years, the weird nightmares furtherly explain it as well
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Can we get a video on tips to build self-trust? It would be super super helpful! Thank you for all the work you guys put into these by the way!
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Yep all this is me except the controlling part
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bro I have AnXiEtY these signs just come naturally-
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everyone relates to the problem but why isn’t anybody talking on how to solve it?
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I found your channel while i trying to find what me, an introvert is. And after that i become proud of being just me. 😊
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waw it's a bit hard when you state things clearly in front of you, specially when it comes down to describing yourself! i go through all these 8 things everyday, I try to pep talk myself sometimes, but in the end I always feel I'm not good enough! or I'm not worthy! Somehow I feel the opposite, but at times my actions just seem to take me back to these assumptions! I know I'm good, I just find it hard to prove to myself that I am good, before proving to others that I am!
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