"Love is Not Enough in Intimate Relationships!" You NEED These 3 Things As Well with Matthew Hussey

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Today we’re back for ROUND 2 of all things relationships with none other than the insightful relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. Whether you’re healing a broken heart or exploring a new relationship, today’s episode is a must-listen. We’ll explore why breakups can hurt even when you know it’s for the best, what it truly means to change for someone you love, and how to identify if you’re dating a high-value person.

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0:00 Intro
00:03:20 - Chronic Grief and Moving On
00:06:51 - The Fear of Change and Letting Go
00:10:14 - The Difficulty of Change in Relationships
00:13:51 - Changing for Someone Else?
00:17:23 - The Mirror of Self-Realization
00:21:01 - Setting Standards in Relationships
00:24:36 - Developing Personal Standards
00:28:20 - Finding Love Based on Personal Values
00:32:07 - The Value of Consistency in Relationships
00:35:53 - Creating Intimacy Through Painful Conversations
00:39:07 - Having Difficult Conversations and Establishing Relationship Values
00:42:38 - Conversations About Future Goals
00:45:48 - Prioritizing My Health
0:49:01 - Priorities in a Relationship: Health, Purpose, and Love
00:52:24 - Priorities for a Healthy Relationship
00:55:46 - Prioritizing Self and Relationship
00:59:21 - Prioritizing Relationships
01:02:50 - The Importance of Compatibility
01:06:13 - The Importance of Loving Yourself
01:09:46 - The Problem with the Romantic Model of Self-Love
01:12:57 - Taking Care of Your Human
01:16:31 - Taking Care of Your Human
01:20:06 - Quick Love Update

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All Comments (21)
  • @lewishowes
    Thanks to Matthew for sharing his wisdom with us! Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share the biggest moment for you. And make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again youtube.com/lewishowes
  • @desertrose111
    Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband, sometimes you have to show the courage of leaving people you care about in order to find people who care about you.
  • @Avarosa
    It's okay to mourn the fact that they were not the one, but don't mourn them AS IF they were the one. ❤
  • @danajoseph868
    This guy makes so much sense. Rather than make a list of boxes to check off, think about how the person makes you feel daily!!! What women mostly look for is security...that's a feeling that when you know, you KNOW!
  • @2tzus
    I ended a 28-year marriage in my mid 40s; the hardest thing I've ever done. From the outside it was very 'white picket fence' so it threw a real wrench in every aspect of our world, but I knew I couldn't do another 28 years of the same thing. The disentanglement process with friends and family is overwhelming and takes a very long time, but fast forward 14 years, I'm married to a wonderful man and I'm glad I had the courage to make the changes I needed for me. My ex-husband, however, is still single and still sees himself as the victim. All I can do is save myself.
  • Of course! Going through a breakup can be a challenging and emotional time. It's important to give yourself space to heal and process your feelings. Take time to reflect on the relationship and what you've learned from it. Surround yourself with positive influences and engage in activities that bring you joy. Remember, this is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. You're capable of rebuilding and finding happiness again. Stay strong! 💪❤️
  • @yq2280
    Because we hoped that one day they will change but they won’t !
  • Thank you so much for the beautiful comments everyone! And love you Lewis! Literally one of my favorite people to speak to in the world, both on and off camera. Appreciate you brother. For anyone who wants to order a copy of the book you can grab yours at www.lovelifebook.com. Happy reading everyone!! ❤🎉
  • @vikkster5723
    You have been speaking so much truth. Love is not enough. Lovers need to match lifestyles,morals,desires and dreams to work. Otherwise your lover should be a friend you love.
  • @hkellam9
    I'm only 12 minutes into this podcast and I feel like it summarizes the last year of my life in terms of growth and everything I'm currently learning about love and life, grief, heartache, and betrayal and how to move past it. Bravo Matthew And Lewis for this episode
  • @arthuritis4503
    I lit the fuse that blew up my life... best thing i ever did.
  • @Berryandmango
    Mr Hussey has matured so beautifully; he has soul and heart. A very decent gentleman. One can sense that these two gentleman love each other.
  • @oliviarbanks
    The last 20 minutes where Matthew talks about how to really love your self— your Human— and comparing that to the love of a parent and child, unconditional love, that was what really landed for me. Amazing interview— top 5!
  • @Angelgirl25
    2 beautiful divine masculine souls having a great conversation. Thank you for this.
  • @lenkaa.9955
    "I love myself because I exist❤". Powerful. Beautiful conversation as always. Thank you guys.
  • @DSILVAjeiy
    🤔🎯🏹 Let this sink in... Self Priorities 🏆💗 #1: Health (Mind, Body, Spirit) #2: Vision & Purpose #3: Healthy Relationship
  • @BirgitGriessner
    Being "my human".. never thought of my life like this before. It's so powerful and beautiful and simple really. And instantly changes perception. Thank you Matthew, from the bottom of my heart.