The BIG LIES Narcissists Want You To BELIEVE! How They Manipulate You | Dr Ramani

Not every liar is a narcissist. But every narcissist is a liar. Something to remember when you start noticing the red flags.

“Abuse is abuse and it’s not our job to excuse someone’s bad behavior. It’s an adult responsibility to get their own house in order.” Thank you Dr. Ramani!

Not only do they not care they hurt you. Once they realize they did hurt you, the will do it over and over and over again.

I am an immigrant and she brought me here from Africa. She doesn't cook not clean. I cook and clean and takes care of her mum. It took me over 2 years to know why this lady doesn't say sorry or why she lies consistently at everything. I started working earning $15 and hour and she said I will pay a bill of $1000 every month in a house she bought before I got here. I run into depression and have been put on medication. Recently she was asking for more money and I told her I won't give her. A week later I have been summon to a divorce hearing which means immigration will cancel my permanent residence and now I can't get my job left back in Africa since I have been here for 3years. Dr I want to thank you because I didn't know who this lady is until I started watching you

Being in a narcissistic relationship is like being bit by a poisonous snake, even after it's gone the poison is still in you. In this life, if you're not sitting at the table you're on the menu. So be careful who you build a life with, because if you're not tough or smart you will be taken advantage of, especially by the one (narcissist) that supposedly loves you. It's bad enough you have to keep your guard up with strangers to keep them from screwing you, never mind the one you love. The guard should come down when you get home.

I think the biggest lie is “I love you”

It is way way way better to be alone forever than with that narcissist lump.

I get anxiety and depression when I'm around dishonest people.

I had a feeling for many months that my husband was cheating on me. I would even have vivid dreams about it. When I finally saw tinder and the 10-15 messages with different women on his phone, he told me that he was trying to fix everything and was trying to find his way back to me and now I had ruined everything. Then he became physical with me because I had looked through his phone. Only a narcissist will cheat on you, blame you for it and then hit you for catching him on his lie. The thing he ruined the most, is my world view. I was so naive and always saw the good in people, even in him, after he hurt me so badly, and now I can't allow anyone in, let alone trust them 😢

so not every liar is a narcissist but every narcissist is a liar but they lie about the fact they don’t lie

I’ve come to realize that the past 5 years of my relationship with a narcissist were based on nothing but lies. That hurts!

Those stories about " woe is me " ( blame-shifting), along with the projection of their illusions. Baiting and crumbs.

I’m going to make a BOLD statement. I have Successfully Survived and overcome my Narcissistic Mother. I dare say that I’ve healed. It isn’t easy, but it can be done. These people are the most confusing, world turning, hurtful, crazy making people. It took decades of personal work and very firm boundaries. It seemed that most of the terminology used today was non-existent 30 years ago. These terms help to sort out these behaviors in your head and heart. Healing and thriving is possible. Sending you all this message of HOPE.

The narc I dealt with went to therapy, one whole session, and came back to tell me that his therapist told him that if I didn’t want to have sex with him there was something seriously wrong with me. Narcissism... the gift that keeps on giving.

I can’t tell you how many times my narc has said “why can’t you just believe me “ when she’s telling obvious lies

A sure way to tell if they are lying is their lips are moving!

Narcissist apologies are worthless.

Yes. Lying hurts people. Truth Heals. Lies fall to the ground. Truth Stands Forever. 💗

Those first 20 seconds summed it up perfectly! This woman is an absolute gem 💎 Indebted to her advice over the years! God bless 🙏 ❤️

Seriously Dr.Ramani I only wish I heard your utube channel when I was growing up as a teenager, and becoming an adult 20yrs ago. You are such a bright light of awareness in illuminating what these toxic personality types entail and I can’t thank you enough 🙏🌿🕊for calling them out for what they are and not further enabling or glorifying them as society has done so in previous years. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou. You are a absolute HERO!!!!