How to deal with the side effects of hormone therapy with prostate cancer

Published 2023-01-13
Hi just me talking about the ups and downs of hormone therapy treating my prostate cancer.

Hormone therapy is a life saving treatment for me and many others who have advanced prostate cancer, but it does have many side effects that can be really difficult for men to cope with…..

Thank you for watching this video, I’ve been making these videos as a vlog sharing my journey through Advanced Metastatic Prostate Cancer.
My world literally fell apart on Sept 15th 2021 when I was diagnosed with Advanced Prostate Cancer which according to my Oncologist is incurable (although ive never accepted that) Questions such as how long have I got left how bad is it , in fact, a whole host of frightening thoughts, where sudennly swarming around my mind and exploding at opportune moments when I felt most vulnerable.

If i were to be honest, I was lost and lonely to begin with. People don’t know how to deal with someone who has stage four cancer. It’s a taboo subject. I honestly didn’t know who to turn to for help. It can be a dark place and I only wish I could of found a channel such as this to help me through those early days.

I started writing a blog whilst I was in hospital and recovering at home after the initial treatment phase.

I then decided to make this vlog because it seemed a better way to get my story out there. I want to provide a channel where I would continue telling my story for as long as I can and invite comments from others that can also help and share their own experiences.

Cancer can be a lonely place, and I hope this channel will help someone else who may be a bit lost and feel alone whilst dealing with their own diagnosis and experience.

Nothing is ever as bad as you think it will be, and that seems to the case so far with my experience with Prostate Cancer.

Thank you for watching. Please comment and subscribe if you feel like it, and please share the videos with anyone you think may find them helpful

Woody ❤️

All Comments (21)
  • @PlattLaneEnd
    Hello. I've the honour of being your 500th subscriber.. I received my PC diagnosis 3 days ago. So I'm a new boy here. The hardest bit wasn't receiving the diagnosis, it was having to break it to my wife. I'm a Gleeson 4&3. Waiting for a couple of scans then the decision on the course of action. A rocky road awaits I've absolutely no doubt, but I'm like you at present: I'm going to try as hard as I can to be grateful for what I have in my life. I'll just take each day as it comes. Best wishes to you and your family.
  • @mikesuess9891
    I share those same side effects Woody. You are right, gratitude for what we have is a huge offset to those times we are down. Keep up the positivity and smiles
  • Thank you Woody. It takes great courage to open up on your prostate cancer. I’ve been through the same side effects as you. I was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer in 2013 with a Gleason score of 5&4 with a life expectancy of 2-3 years. I am still here 9 years on albeit the hormone treatment with Abiraterone acetate (Zytiga®) has finally run its course. I am now on a course of Docetaxel chemotherapy which unfortunately has its own punishing side effects, but I’m still alive. I have the possibility of going onto a clinical trial and then I pray that our poor old NHS will be allowed to administer Lutetium-177 PSMA a innovative new treatment that involves a special radioactive medication being injected into your bloodstream. Sadly it is currently only available privately and at huge expense. My family passionately supports Prostate Cancer UK in the hope that they will find a cure for this cancer. Take care and God bless you. Jon
  • @GaryOldSkool
    Hi Woody, Thank for this - It sounds like exactly the same side effects as me . Im 4 months into treatment on the 3 monthly injection and the 4 tablets daily - Had my 2nd injection last monday. .I am just grateful to be alive as well and just put up with the side effects to be honest.. Keep going mate and thanks for the videos .. To anyone else watching this and on the same journey i wish you all the best
  • @ga6589
    My husband is 20 months into his stage 4 prostate cancer journey- radiation, lupron injections and abiraterone. His hot flashes have actually quieted down lately. His main complaints are fatigue, losing muscle mass, weight gain and increased appetite from the prednisone. (Many of his side effects are what we women go through with menopause!). We are trying to just take one day at a time and like you, are appreciating the little things more than we ever did. The hardest part is living with the uncertainty of cancer and the waiting for results, but with every PSA test that comes back negligible, we rejoice! Thank you for sharing your journey!
  • @reidhenry3452
    Thanks very much for your articulation of the challenges you face. I've had prostate issues since I was in my 40s, prostatectomy at 58, and now 10 years later after a return of prostate cancer I'm currently undergoing radiation therapy combined with hormone therapy (Lupron) which I started a few months ago. I've encountered similar side effects to yours from the hormone therapy. I completely agree there are mental health issues around dealing with serious changes we encounter while taking these drugs designed to extend our lives. I too find it helpful to recognize the positives, such as the incredible healthcare system that takes care of me (I'm in Canada) with such caring people and advanced technology keeping me healthy. I have a new granddaughter, and I often think how I might never have known the joy of being around to watch her grow. I like to remind myself that as humans we can only go forward. There's no point in thinking about "why me?" or "what if?". Every new day is a good day to be alive. I'm sending best wishes for your continued progress and good health!
  • @Mauldenpat21
    Woody so inspirational. Just makes me think how lucky I am and all the positive things I have around me, despite having very aggressive Prostate Cancer. Thanks mate
  • I’m glad you’ve found a way to see the bright side of it. I’m very disappointed in whatever medical system allowed you to start that treatment without full understanding of what to expect. I’m also disappointed that you felt alone during the process. You should have been referred to support groups where you can talk with other men who share your experience. The medical system let you down badly there. As for treatment, it is perfectly reasonable to expect that you will be given breaks in the hormone therapy. This will give you time for your testosterone to recover and shouldn’t jeopardize the cancer control in the long run. Finally, keep your eye on PSMA based treatments, which are rapidly progressing and offer significant chance for quality of life improvement in patients in your situation.
  • @timhayes7867
    Thank you for your videos. I’ve been on my journey since 2015. First Surgery, then radiation and now on the hormonal treatments- first and second generation for two years. Approaching the disease with a sense of gratitude really helps. In many ways it was a wake up call and I’m glad I have the opportunity to make the changes in my life that needed to be made. My coping mechanisms are exercise and family time. The exercise helps mitigate the hormone effects and helps me stay positive. My mood swings include, intense, irrational anger. My oncologist warned me about it so I’m very careful to take a breath and try to get it under control before I say something I might regret. For the hot flashes Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC has an acupuncture protocol that worked wonders - 6 sessions and no more hot flashes. They came back after 9 months, one tune up and they are under control. Best of luck to all.
  • @LARRYWAITE
    thanks for your perspective and words of encouragement brother --- keep on the sunny side, every day is truly a gift
  • @daveh893
    Thank you for your heartfelt video. I, too, am on hormone therapy and can relate. It's encouraging to hear someone else talk about their journey.
  • @okaymate1079
    Knowing the affects of hormone treatment is causing all my anxiety at the moment as I’m a week away from starting it. It over rides any thoughts of the cancer & any other treatment How much of me will be left,my personality,my humour,my power The dynamics of attraction and bond with my wife without intimacy & passion I’m not yet grateful this shite will save my life Your video’s I’ve slowly been going through I thank you for doing
  • I also have prostate cancer and my doctor never explained the side effects. I also cry . That’s the easy one. The hot and cold flashes that’s the tough one, waking up and I’m soaked. Thank you for speaking on this. Your helping so many people. I’ve noticed lately losing my energy, I’m like an old man.
  • @johndavis7425
    Thank you for your honesty. I started hormone therapy a month ago and was having a bad day until I came across your video.
  • @Lochrie
    Sending you much love from north of the wall Woody, and the strength to carry on being grateful. I'm grateful for the fact that I know you. Stewart.
  • @stevearmstrong9275
    Thanks for sharing Woody. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 prostate cancer about 6 months ago. I just had the PET/PSMA scan to see if there has been any mestasesis. I’m on the Decaptyl 3 monthly injections and daily 1000mg Zytiga with Prednisolone. I’ve been luck I think so far with side effects. So far the hot the hot flushes 5-6 times a day are by far the worst. I just about cope with random mode swings and rollercoaster of unpredictable emotions. Most of the time I’m ok, but occasionally I find my self having fits of rage for no known reason, or I just want to cry over the most stupid things. As you say, we have to take the rough with the smooth and be thankful for every day we are alive. Stay strong. You’re not alone on this journey.
  • @carledquist4039
    Being alive. Biggest take away. Mine came back after 10 years. It's now situated in one lymph node in my pelvic region. Just finished five radiation sessions and started the injections again. Started Xtandi pills (were not available ten years ago). I'm kind of used to it all, but it's still hard. Appreciate the honest talk about this. Cheers, Carl
  • Thank you. Also battling PC recurrence and headed for a second round of HT. Your words are profound and inspiring. Please keep them coming.
  • @enniscollado202
    I'm on lupron treatment...thank you for sharing....I young in my journey ...your a good example to the importance to having resiliency. Your sharing is helpful.