Becky's Back | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 166

"We're not having 'Eugene babysits Henry for the first time'" THE LAYERS OF SHADE

I appreciate that Becky and Keith kept the pregnancy off line. I think there is so much of our lives on the internet. It’s wonderful to see people set healthy boundaries.

Besides crying during the whole episode and being extremely happy for them, Becky described me “I want to be a mom, but don’t want to go through the pregnancy and birthing stage”

I think we can all agree that Maggie is the MVP of friendships. She is clearly so valued that she is invited to step in as substitute husband, mother and sister during what sounds like a difficult pregnancy

The Habersbaby Hard Launch will be spoken about for generations. Congratulations Becky and Keith!!!

'Henry Habersberger' as a name has serious main character vibes! Love it! Congrats Becky and Keith!

I just love Becky's use of language- how she kept correcting herself from saying "Until he gets better at xyz" to "Until his body gets better at xyz". That subtle change makes all the difference and melts my cold heart.

The anesthesiologist should thank their lucky stars Keith was out of the room when he said that awful thing to Becky. Also can’t believe that Keith was also rehearsing as Juliet through all of this !

I can’t explain it but the name Henry makes so much sense for Keith and Becky, like it matches them

I would hold and hug Becky for a month straight. "All the choices were taken away from me", just really hits.

Rachel crying when Becky cries 🥺 I’m so happy Becky decided to share her birth story, I was really hoping she would ❤️

It sounds like Becky had a great support team throughout her pregnancy 🤍 I cried with her as she shared her experience. I’m not a mom but I empathize.

Becky; "you don't have to hold the baby" Rachel: "give me the baby and nobody gets hurt"

That nurse who said “I’m so sorry your decisions were taken away” was honestly the most touching thing, it seems clear Becky truly appreciated that moment. Coming from someone who’s gone through their own trauma (not labor ofc), the people who acknowledge it and give empathy is the best support from my experience. I’m glad at least one person was able to give that to Becky. Major congrats to Becky, Keith, and Henry! I’m glad they’re happy now and recovering from that insane labor experience. Not surprising at all that Henry loves being outside with people lol.

i've noticed how opposite keith and becky's approach to raising a kid as public figures is from what wife-guy's was. I think keith was able to see first hand the negative repercussions of having your kid well-known to millions of people can have and was able to learn from that and handle it so much more responsibly!

41:25 this part reminds me of the hunger games when cinna meets katniss. he goes "im sorry this happened to you" and she says "most people just congratulate me" and i feel like that shows how much that nurse empathized with becky instead of the others just brushing away all the bad things as if that wasn't an awful experience

We announce the spin-off of "Keith Eats the menu" to "Henry finishes the bottle! " So happy for you both!

As soon as Becky started talking about the nurse saying "I'm sorry your choices were taken away" I started bawling. It's great to have people around who are upbeat and positive, of course. But it's sooo impactful to have someone validate the emotions and grief you feel when you have an experience go so far sideways from what you were hoping for ❤

As an Occupational Therapist, thank you to Maggie and Becky for shouting us out, we rarely get mentioned and most people don't know what we do, so that was awesome ❤

Thanks to Becky for her generosity here - she didn't have to share any of this but she did. I also had a high risk pregnancy and then birth trauma. Hearing other stories is so validating.