How to overcome BETRAYAL

A person who is distrustful , will always be suspicious of people no matter how many times you show with your actions, words, in different circumstances that you are sincere and honest They will misinterpret your words or actions. They will not allow you to explain yourself. I feel sorry for them because they have seen the ugly in others and they are projecting it on you. I totally agree with you Rabbi that the only way for people who have trust issues is to turn to God .. because we as humans can only see the faces, but God sees the heart .. Trust that God can reveal people‘s true intentions to you and that you don’t have to control everything and everyone because you trust no body… Allow God to take action.. may be God can put in your way , a person you ‘d never expect who would support you , believe in you and love you sincerely so you can regain trust in people and life if you would give them a chance and don’t push them away.. many thanks for your wise words

After decades of untrustworthy and abusive relationships, including my family of origin, my journey, the path to trust, began with Radical Acceptance. Once I was able to reconcile what was, is, always will be I was able to move forward to a place of renewed empathy and discernment. That didnt mean never facing toxic, manipulative or other difficult relationships again. There will be people in our lives who do the "right" things for the wrong reasons. They use those breadcrumbs of humanity to gain some sort of "supply" from us. But the road to a life well lived is looking at what's broken in your life so you can find what's right for your life. Rabbi, this way a phenomenal video! Im going to listen to this one again and again! Thank you for sharing these important ideas! Continued and Greater Blessings!

I feel less alone listening to you, Rabbi Jacobson. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I learned at 7 yrs old that I couldn't trust my parents. And my lack of guidance in life and love drove me to seek out the same kind of people most of my life. And I realized that I couldn't trust my own decisions. That was terrifying - especially when I went into a state of dissociation and wound up homeless - it was then that I found people I could trust and I am starting to trust myself again. You are right: Trust is as important as oxygen. Without it, it's a frightening, dog-eat-dog world and I nearly ended up being someone's dinner.

Rabbi, you are absolutely adorable and wonderful. Thank you so much for another of your great talks 🌹🙏💕

I had a mother who completely hated me because of her pain over my sister's death, God taught me to forgive and love. I tried to find her as I was taken away from her for my protection, it was 23 years later and she still hated me. Thanks to God's love He taught me such compassion for her suffering and imprisonment I feel only sincere love for her though I don't have contact in order not to encourage her hatred. Our Father is so beautiful and pure in His love for us. I have had issues, terrible fears, terrible behaviour, but God won and I thank Elohim for being my Yehoshua Messiah and winning in me and teaching me to know others fears, insecurities, sadness and brokeness and give them the same love our Father has given me and I'm so grateful

Do you ever feel like life is betraying you? You are betrayed by family, friends, strangers, people with authority, and finally after a lifetime of receiving their abuse you finally betray yourself. I didn't even realize that I was doing it because I'm so adapted to it after a constant lifetime of it. If betrayal caused PTSD I would have CPTSD for sure after everything. I'm honestly tired and I can't really explain why.

The fact that not only this came up on my algorithm but also it was uploaded like 1 days ago was something remarkable for me personally… I’ll always remember the weight of trust, especially the relationship with my mother, thank u.

Honestly, the only person I trust is my mother. No one deservers my trust. No one is even trying to earn it. Rarely is broken what isn't lent. But over all, I trust God. God cannot be wrong. I know God. I know I can trust his wisdom.

Thank you Rabbi Jacobson!!✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

What a wonderful man the rabbi is, how many wise and precious words he has, above all he says everything in the language of love and sincerity. May God bless our Lord, may God bless us too.

Your the very best ! Blessings

I know our parents are victims of victims. Mine are far from perf3ct but thet protected me from dangerous people growing up. Thwts being luckier than others. Count your blessings 🙌

I agree. At about 30 years old I suggested to my mother she visit the neighborhood place of worship instead of her regular church. It took about 1 1/2 years for her to drop her cold shoulder to me; I’d rather of been hit by a bus. My world disappeared for a while. I think we’re both stronger and wiser now, trusting, glad to be able to laugh about it now. It’s a serious topic.

Dear Rabbi Jacobson, thank you so much for your beautiful words which touched me deeply, so intense that they expressed what I have always felt and felt intimately. Growing up without having the possibility to trust is an immense pain but also extremely educational if the answer to this pain is kindness, empathy. Never replicate a pain we have suffered on other people. Thank you again Rabbi Jacobson

It is not the trials that makes us or breaks us, it is how we handle those trials that makes or breaks us.

I have listened to almost all of your videos and have benefited from your wisdom ✨️ ❤100%

My mom recently passed away. We had an on and off relationship but spoke on the phone and I visited her as well. As a child it was rough but I still tried with her. Come to find out she had been in and out of the hospital and neither my brother or sister told me until she was in a coma. Apparently she had told them not to tell me she was going down hill. Lots of family went to see her and visited while she was still alert. I am still struggling with the deep sense of betrayal from my brother and sister, they only said we were just following her wishes. My mother told them that I didn't care about her so this is what I get. I was neglected as a child but she was loving to them. My dad had PTSD and had a hard time when I was a child but we had been rebuilding our relationship when he got sick and passed away. I am grateful I have a loving life long husband who has been there for me. A lot of prayers has helped me to just move on and let things go. My mom just couldn't be who I needed.

Know thyself Rabbi, you know that.

Hello my Rabbi. Love you . Shalom shalom 🙏

Regards Rabbi. Thank you, Sir.