“We have 3 kids, $1k saved, $0 invested. Is it too late for us?”

Published 2023-09-05
Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Ana, 31, and Gabriel, 29. They have three young kids and will be celebrating their tenth wedding anniversary soon. This episode deals with addiction and recovery work, therapy, deep family influences, and imbalanced money dynamics. His money mindset is stuck in the past—but she needs his help.



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All Comments (21)
  • @ramitsethi
    0:00 Please remember: These are real people who had the courage to come on my podcast and ask for help. Would you be willing to come on this podcast and share every detail of your financial life? Feel free to leave comments based on what you think, but remember that we are here to help in a supportive way, not to demean and criticize. Download the Conscious Spending Plan so you can use your money GUILT-FREE: iwt.com/csp-youtube
  • @thebigredfish
    I would love to hear a 1 year update from this couple!
  • Ramit, I really loved when you took the burden off of Gabriel’s shoulders when he started to worry about the comments on his past and addiction. Honestly, that was so beautiful and made me tear up. He has a beautiful future ahead of him and they have a beautiful future together. I’m excited to see an update. ❤
  • @kellymurillo7188
    When Ramit said he'd take care of the comments, I felt immense satisfaction that I knew Gabriel would be taken care of. Ramit is savage dealing with trolls online. This was a great couple. Acknowledged their past and have the right attitude to create a bright future for them and their family. I wish them the best
  • @chloeyloman
    Gabriel, everyone has addictions, some are just more societally acceptable. Huge kudos to you in putting your pride to the side to do what's best for your family (both in kicking your addiction and even just being candid on the podcast). Also amazing job all around to Anna for holding the family together and hopefully she can catch a break and get to breathe soon.
  • Just 8 minutes into this episode and I have nothing but empathy and respect for this couple. People do judge online, but Gabriel 2.0 has his act together and I'm rooting for you and your family!
  • @ayela562
    Gabriel, I trust a man who faces his demons and walks through the other side a lot more than someone who claims to have never made mistakes. Hold your head up high, you and your lovely wife are on the right path.
  • @melinated2497
    His wife loves him for real. I'm glad they came out on the other side of his addiction and are rebuilding. Good on him for working on himself.
  • @jmjm1195
    Wow, truly one of the best couples! I was used to couples not talking, getting stuck on minor details, having to unpack their traumas, triggers (don't get me wrong, I still learn a lot from those episodes) but seeing two young people ready and truly needing just financial support made my day! They showed how it can be straightforward, easy to communicate, etc. They've done the hard work now they just need support getting to the next level. Such a difference from the last two couples, ty Ramit for having them on the show!
  • @ejicon3099
    I'm half way through the video while posting this comment and don't really care that I haven't finished it yet. Gabriel is an example of how I would love to live life: Strong, honest, rational and willing to write his wrongs and focus on his future all while taking his family into consideration. Well done Gabriel.
  • @benperry5923
    Gabriel, good on you for coming on this show and showing you are vulnerable. Don’t be ashamed of the addiction issues. You got this! Anna, great job with standing by him and being a great team.
  • @BCTS
    Anna You are an amazing wife. You stood by your husband during his worst trying time. I'm sure he loves you even more now. Gabriel You're a fighter. The fact that you have turned your life around & are now devoted to your family, Anna & the kids will respect & love you. Anna, Gabriel God bless Your family. Tons of blessings from India
  • @meg_mag
    14 mins into this video, and already want to commend Gabriel 2.0 for his bravery! My heart goes out to this amazing couple. Look how far God has brought you both! The sky is the limit. Stay strong, and keep going. You both are an inspiration to so many!
  • @janellbatey5561
    This is hands down one of my favorite episodes! Gabriel you have nothing to be ashamed of, if anything you are brave! We all suffer with addictions rather its over spending, drinking too much, its all a drug at the end of the day. His wife deserves kudos as well showing what it means to support someone you love through the ups, down and even the ugly. Thank you both for sharing your story because it is so relatable!! I wish you both much success on your journey to living your rich life!!
  • @mrsrrr75
    I’m so proud of you Gabriel 2.0, I wish you all the best on your journey!
  • @TheMandy1209
    Anna is an incredible woman, such a manifestation of feminine grace and strength. I hope she gets the appreciation and reciprocity she deserves. All the best to this couple
  • @user-cx5ve8st8u
    I really, really liked this couple. They totally took responsible for their own actions. Ramit, maybe one day you could do an update from this couple. It was so refreshing to see a couple not fighting and bickering and actually using their time with you proactively. Really enjoyed this video. I wish them all the best!
  • @tifipaul5686
    I loved Gabriel's willingness to admit his missteps not only with lifestyle, but also with spending habits. I also loved Ana's gentleness and patience with him. Wishing their family well.
  • This is the most calm couple on this podcast so far. They have so much love for eachother and there is so much teamwork. Rooting for both you Anna and Gabriel