When a narcissist loses the best thing that ever happened to them | The Narcissists' Code Ep 862
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Published 2023-09-20
Link to vid mentioned in the podcast - • They regret losing ACCESS TO YOU‼️ (t...
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All Comments (21)
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They don’t love you, they love what you do for them ya’ll.
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When you learn to accept the fact that you never mattered to them, you've won half the battle.
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It’s scary to think you could be with a narcissist and not know it , we should post their pictures up on a website with a surgeon general warning 😢
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Unconditional love with a Narc is Imprisoning yourself.
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You do not love a narcissist you love their potential. It was a trauma bond. Cut them off forever. There’s no unconditional love for a narcissist that’s self-hate.
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At one point we went to counseling. The councelor wanted to meet with us separately. When I met with the councelor he said, “when did you decide that you have so low self worth that it is acceptable how he is treating you?” I was taken aback. I honestly at that time could not fully wrap my head around it. But he told me what I needed to hear.
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A Narcissist will treat you worse and be more disrespectful if you take them back again !!!
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Their loss. I read the other day someone said “they lost a diamond while playing with stones”. I’m no contact. No access. Access denied. Game over.
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The Narcissist's biggest regret is that they did not totally decimate you.
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The saddest thing is that most do every thing possible to make sure that supply has no choice but to give up on them. Its self sabotage
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He lost me for 5 yrs. Then contacted me. I returned it has been the worst roller coaster ride I've ever had for the pass 14 yrs. They do not change. They get more evil and meaner. Now that I know what's wrong with him. I feel free as a bird. I repeat THEY DO NOT CHANGE. THEIR IS NO LOVE APPRECIATION LOYALTY OR ROMANCE WITH NARCISSIST.
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It’s been 3 weeks since I blocked my ex narc. These videos are keeping me strong in letting him go. I know it will never get better. Each time I forgave and took him back, he would end up always hurting me worse. Be strong and know your worth ❤
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Please note from the dialogue that it is "access to supply". If you think you for one minute that you were ever loved or regarded as anything other than a source for a very comfortable life, watch more videos. You are an ATM, an appliance, a thing that is there to feed their ego and torture you while you die a very slow death waiting to get back the person who loved bombed you - You will never be valued as a real human being...they simply do not have the capacity to give a shit and make it right.
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Also, he DOES know I'm the best person that has ever happened to him. He told me during his times of weakness and I believe him because I know it's absolutely true. Too bad for him though, because I made it crystal clear when I kicked him to the curb that I am happy on my own. ❤
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True, they will regret only the fact they CAN'T continue to abuse you! My ex husband knows I don't give a damn about him and he CAN'T take it! Wants to get back with me so he can triangulate, manipulate and gas light me. Those days are OVER 💯 and I am happily contently single for 4 years now 🙌🏽
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Losing their access to supply/control - the ego is so big they cannot express any vulnerabilities. Stalking/monitoring is what I experienced. On 🎯.
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"Narcissists regret losing ACCESS to you. Not what they have done to you...not how they treated you....not what they put you through."🔥🔥🔥That wraps it up right there. If you really internalize this sentence....you can really understand the disorder. WE can look introspectively without shame...they cannot. The emotional connection isn't there anyway....so why would there be regrets with the exception of CONTROL and ACCESS? Wow!💥
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He didn't come back, he knew I saw the truth. He couldn't be bothered to try and manipulate me anymore, too much effort for him. I'm sure he misses the supply but he is not willing to work on himself or the connection. He was cold and didn't show emotions, trying to make me look crazy when he drove me to breaking point.
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All love should be conditional. You should never stay in the situation where you are giving and someone's treating you like shit.
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They can only change if they touch rock bottom and acknowledge they are sick. And only God can transform.
