Matchmaker Shares WHERE to Meet Men AND Women!

I don't have a problem starting a conversation with a woman, usually pertaining to the reason we're both at the same place. What I DO have an unfortunate problem with is every woman I do talk to and later ask them to have coffee some time is that they all say they're sorry, but they're already in a relationship, regardless of age.

I love conversations with strangers. I almost always learn something. I don't think of these encounters as flirting or leading to a date. If I were to talk only to men who are age-appropriate, well-groomed, and charmingly single, I'd have to stop talking.

So let me get this straight, I can meet interesting single women who lie to me and tell me they aren’t! Lol.

Wherever you are, act like that's the place to be.😂

Great video Carey. Love is in the air, everywhere you look around. If your telling people in line at Costco about us, I would prefer that you tell the ladies rather than the gentlemen!!! LOL I would like to encourage you to resume helping those that are less fortunate. I know that it always gives me an added sense of purpose and accomplishment. Always a 👍for mom. ☕

I really liked this video- I meet women the old fashioned way- at my favorite supper club..lot of single, older ladies there, they even go alone.. it’s a comfortable ambiance…

Loved this! I live in a rural area [by choice - love the laid back country life!] - with very little of the big city convenience, clubs and entertainment, and things to do - if any [other than churchy stuff]. Ever since I made up my mind to actually go out to look - and more importantly take my time to look, rather than to rush through my errands, I realized men are literally EVERYWHERE! I still drop the ball too often [or catch up on someone's interest too late, because I'm still in work & get-things-done mode a lot of the time, but I am getting better at it. Practice for sure makes it easier and more fun too! And hands-down - it's the grocery stores for me! I need to hit up our Lowes this weekend - I am ready to buy a small handheld torch for a new jewelry making project I want to give a try out, and things like that I prefer to buy locally where I can compare several models, types etc side by side, so I can see the actual size and weight, how they fit my hand and how difficult it is to get replacement cartridges etc. I wonder if there'll be someone to ask there???

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Such a fun post!! I have found over the years if you present yourself in a non-threatening, open and friendly manner (all while reading body language and respecting when it’s signaling no interest) it’s possible to meet people almost anywhere. This was one of the most unusual for me. I was pulled over by a female state police trooper, and given a ticket. I found her quite attractive and could not stop smiling, which at the time because of the bonehead reason (on my part) that she pulled me over, was clearly irritating her. The very next day I saw her driving her squad car (she patrolled a stretch of highway that I frequented). I was able to pull up next to her and get her attention. I smiled and waved. She returned the same so I signaled for her to pull over. She looked at me like I was nuts, but did. We both got out of our cars on the shoulder and she asked if I was crazy (in a very cute way) and I responded that I was, but not in a bad way. After apologizing for the aforementioned bonehead maneuver and a short conversation, I asked if I could take her out to dinner. She agreed, at which point I asked if SHE was crazy. She, too, said yes and we both laughed. We ended up dating for several months and remained friends for many years. As Carey pointed out, if you leave yourself open and approachable you can meet people almost anywhere!

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Carey, may I ask who initiated the conversation? For the first time ever in my life I initiated conversation. This is a big deal because I grew up in a time the man must make the initial contact. I'm learning!! 😁 Carry on Teacher 🍵☕

Your videos are interesting to me. I’m guessing I’m a bit older than you, but I keep myself nice. I’ve said before, I meet men that like me - But if I get past an initial conversation and want to see if there is something substantial there, this is what I find: 1. Most are married, but initially hiding that. I have several married men that have giant crushes on me (a total no go for me). 2. Men with drug or alcohol problems that they are initially hiding that 3. Men that already seeing 2-3 women they are juggling. 4. Men that are rabidly in the other side of politics from me. Just nobody that has any potential I do have a guy I talk to and date. We talk most days, but he doesn’t want a relationship. Ever, not just me. So I just carry on with life and hope 🙏

I’m guessing you at least smiled or said hi. Decent men don’t want to inflict unwanted attention on women these days, but if you show us you are ok if we approach, we still remember how to be friendly.

Home depo and car part stores are good because women usually dont so those alone when in relationship. Just look lost. Its easy for man to approach too.

Yeah right, none of those are places that I’d ever talk to anyone & I’ve definitely never had anyone ever talking to me at any of those places before either. People are busy doing their own thing, they don’t want to be bothered, especially by a woman! 😂😂😂😂

Btw, Starbucks is the #1 place I’ve had conversations with men that led to a date or 2 or 3, but not anything more

Post divorce for many years, now in my 60's, fit, active attend shows, movies, concerts, lectures etc,.Take classes where only men there are married. Others I see around are considerably older or very unkempt or frail. I have no trouble striking up conversations with other women. Seems i am invisible to men, altogether. Dating sites hav been a mine field for me, even when I have initiated with men I thought were so compatible. No interest whatsoever. It is like I have been in a men free zone, a.k.a. a convent!! Help! S- O -S

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