Why you can expect the Narcissist to hoover you

The cockroaches always come out of the woodwork when they want something.

They prioritize their own needs over yours... what an understatement!

They will not hoover when they see you have friends and family who will protect you. If they see you as a strong person with boundaries, they will move on.

I am Nobody’s “toy” to be played with or recycled at someone else’s leisure. I cut a lot of people off from my life in recent years because the relationships were not balanced and the give and take was absent. It came without notice! Cutting my ex husband off was the greatest catalyst to cutting off family members. My whole life was spent making myself small to make others happy, but even that was never enough. They could never be happy with any of my accomplishments, etc., but I still bent over backwards for them. I don’t tell anyone what I have going on in my life (good or bad). I just simply allow people to assume whatever they please, because they are going to think what they want anyway… Besides the people who matter are not going to believe the lies anyway!

Wolves Always come back to where they left carrion ….but guess what … I’m not carrion !

She can Hoover away, if she dares once she gets bored of her recycled bf and the $1M house he put her in. She’ll find out how deafening silence can be.

My Ex Narc is blocked everywhere possible including her family and friends. I’ve been no contact for 4 months and she did manage to make 2 attempts with flying monkeys but I ignored them. It’s still difficult at times but what a feeling to be completely free of their toxicity. Stay strong & sweep the leg if they try to access your life again.

8:23 “ 8:25 you’re wellbeing injures them!” What he says here is unfortunate but I can speak from experience is true! 8:25

20K!!! Congratulations !!! Thank you for magic of Joe B. House !!! 🤗❤

I noticed a few days ago that my narcissist had unblocked me on snapchat, she came up on the recommendation list. Talked to one of my best friends about it, and she told me that they got engaged back in february, 4 months after they got together. She got this new supply one week after i cut the contact with her. It's been 7 months since that. She keeps ruminating about me still 😂

Thanks…..Joe, your just the best 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️

No empathy for any toxic person narcissist or not!

Joe,you've helped me immensely. You're very good at this. But, I'm turning off notifications because I know what they do and I don't care why they do it. I'm focused on me now. Chalk up another JBH graduate. 😊

But I am not so sure they return when you push back- I am done with that anyway! It’s so sick!

After getting blocked on what seemed to be everything by my narc ex several months ago, I got hoovered a few days ago. I was also assured it would be the last time I will hear from her. Okay.

No one cares about the narcissist here. Concerned with these things-Spiritual responsibility (mine and theirs), a little bit of justice (forget truth, and I'm an optimist), and the future dignity and defense of the vulnerable, which are women and children.

2 mnths later! He just talked about his workmate (with the same name as him) This same workmate delivered my uber order 2 mnths later ( I never spoke with him but asked to txt me but he never did) They looked similar too (going off the pic on Uber) I was so traumatized by it all. I was told he maybe bi too, but I had no clue. 😮😢

I should have had a massive red flag over his hoarding n junk he would sit n think how one day he’ll fix that junk! I’m now apart of his garage collection

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Really do have to disagree with Joe on this one. He has forgotten duty. Maybe most have. Some of us are often compelled by duty; duty to GOD, duty to our loved ones, duty to anyone who depends on our fulfillment of a task and even duty to ourselves. Often we are required to forgo our own pleasure or endure some discomfort to perform our duty.