6 Verbal Tricks To Make An Aggressive Person Sorry

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Published 2018-01-22
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Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
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How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies

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Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate?
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We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.

So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.

1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you

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All Comments (21)
  • @wieb72
    I love the statement someone made years ago. "People don't want to hear your opinion. They want their opinion to come out of your mouth."
  • @johndevries7397
    Jordan: "I like dogs" Kathy: "So you're saying that you hate cats?"
  • @AmirahJoy
    I’ve learned to say “If you want to know what I’m saying, you’ll have to stop talking and listen.”
  • @paolafriedrick
    This level of clarity and mental speed is not achieved by simple tips and tactics. This shows a long time of commitment to truth. When you commit to saying what you think is true, it will be easy to see clearly what's in front of you, see through people's bs, see through the games, call things out and quickly be able to straighten distorted arguments. Once you choose true, life will become the best adventure of your life.
  • @jonsnow2689
    "Sure is nice out today." "So you're denying climate change?"
  • @Ard-mhacha-abu
    Peterson: “What a clear, sunny day.” Newman: “So you’re saying clouds have no right to be here?”
  • @K162KingPin
    I've been doing this for years, and never realized the technique behind it. I was raised by a Father who never appreciated any thought or idea he didn't believe was his. So I learned from an early age the art of letting the other person have my idea. I have since used this successfully in business and personal life for decades. People get so hung up on making sure people know something was "their" idea, that they miss out on having it widely adopted.
  • I could not be in the same room with this lady. He could have annihilated her but he always is checking himself... brilliant human
  • @s0nnyburnett
    Bad idea to play mind games with a psychology professor.
  • The “right to not be offended” line always cracks me up. This isn’t a right.
  • @She.33
    I love the bit about the risk of offending a person and how Jordan answers it, "In order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive. You're certainly willing to risk offending me in the pursuit of truth. Why should you have the right to do that? It's been rather uncomfortable." (I also love the hilarious comments in here.)
  • @usssanjacinto1
    Jordan Peterson: "I'm hungry." Kathy Newman: "So what you're saying is... I should make you a sandwich?"
  • @cowboy4378
    Peterson: “gotcha” Newman: “so you’re saying that you now own me.”
  • @normapadro420
    I've learned since I was very little that I wasn't worthy of anything. Eventhough I saw many successful people on television. I saw very highly intelligent people too. I never believed that my environement was going to play a role in my future. This is why I involved myself in educational goals. Graduated from High School. Graduated from College. I never listened to the put downs. If I did I would never create Art. Photography. Become an Author. Compose music for movies, television, videos would have been an obsticle for me, and never think that I would mount to anything. I didn't believe that I couldn't make it. I learned everything I wanted to learn through reading books, and anything educational. There is no limit, but the one you place on yourself.
  • He is good! Keeps his cool and carefully unpacks all that is hurls at him in one breathless statement. Making her slow down and repeat her questions one at a time is good.
  • Jordan Peterson: “I’m an analyst and therapist.” Cathy Newman: “so what you’re saying is you’re an Analrapist?” Edit: I no longer care for Jordan Peterson.
  • @anthony_gaytano
    YouTube: How to avoid embarassing yourself in an argument "so you are saying that i embarrass myself in every argument??"
  • @lenarsa66
    The most impressive with JP is not that he's intelligent and smart (many are but not many that publicly) the most impressive in my eyes is that he's seem to really be working on himself, not to win only but, to actually grow. That's unusual in our time. And he share's that journey, which might even be unwise for him perdonally but ... idk...
  • @FT-vg9mj
    "So you're saying...that you have just ended my career?"