How to Change Tone of Voice

Published 2019-09-30
Learn how to change your tone of voice. When speaking, do you come across as angry, frustrated, or annoyed? Our tone of voice is VERY hard to change because it's a product of our mindset and habits. But, this video will get you started on the journey. Free Download pdf on Confident Speaking: www.alexanderlyon.com/
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All Comments (21)
  • Love how you link tone and mindset together, that's incredibly true and valuable
  • @Olesia_Kurilo
    I am trying to sound warm and gentle, people think that I am sick or tired ))) LOL
  • @freethinker3083
    Wow! I wasn’t expecting this when I clicked on this. This was great. I sound just like my mother and I hate it. Because she always spoke in a negative, judgmental, Debbie downer type of way. I’ve picked up poor social skills and it makes it hard for people to understand where I am coming from. I’ve been since trying to consciously be aware of how I’m talking or expressing my feelings to people without coming off “fake”. Thank you.
  • @SaxandRelax
    LMAO i thought “everyone around me is stupid” “the world is stupid”
  • @geaninasee4553
    I’ve been struggling to change my tone of voice, but watching your video makes me believe it’s still possible to change my tone of voice. This was such great self help video! I’ll do my best to follow your 3 steps. Really glad I stumbled upon this.
  • @NocturneSoul
    This is so true and useful. I've been noticing over the years that my tone comes from my mindset, and I've been trying to be conscious of attitudes and habits that I carry with me in orden to try to change the way I talk. This video is so true.
  • @kels1009
    It’s a conscious choice. Tone can be either a reflection of your true emotions or a projection of a vision and mission. I’m a bilingual speaker. Tone varies depending if you speak your own mother tongue or secondary language, for work or social, under pressure/urgent situation etc. Tone carries your attitude. Be mindful especially now we work from home and engage more virtually.
  • @AngelekaL
    I have some mental issues and often I hear that I sound like a robot or flat, and I am so thankful I found your channel! This will help me so much!
  • This topic has been formulated with great mindset and great habit. More power to you Coach Alex
  • @Phoenix-kd1we
    I've been looking for this all my life! Thank you very much!
  • @naveenaryal1400
    Wow..!! Lessons for lifetime. And these points are applicable to everything whether you are a leader, speaker, actor, singer. Thanks for this amazing video.
  • Thanks to your videos I just realized that why others have issues with my tone. Whenever I am in a conflict my tone becomes authoritative and sound angry and rude to others. I didn't understand why it was happening when clearly it was not my intention. But now I realised it comes from fear and need to protect myself so no one can overpower me. Thank you so much. I will try to be mindful and try to think before speaking the way I speak.😊
  • @sweetee77
    This is an amazing video, Alex. Thank you for sharing. It is essentially taking it back to basics and I myself have noticed how mindset can change projection. Your company and environment will literally define who you are... And thank you for noting that it takes time to implement these changes. This helped me a lot. Keep it up!
  • I love your channel! I'm a neurolanguage coach for English learning and your videos are very helpful to improve my students' communication in a holistic way.
  • @MsLOBunnie
    So happy I came across this video. It helped me see I’m on the right track. I looked up the topic as a part of my morning mindfulness practice. It helped me get to the roots of my tone in conversations
  • @MelanieAwenKate
    This is interesting. I am generally anxious and excited and my voice is high and unsteady. I know my breath will help I need to take my meditation presence into social situations. This isn’t going to be easy but it’s time. Thanks 🙏🏽
  • You are truly God sent. I listened to many on this topic. No one identified the real issue like you did. You hit the nail on the head for me in this vid. Thank you so much.
  • @lgdasilva5989
    I work in sales and my coworkers have told me that I sound like I’m a cold/mean person. Sometimes I’ll sound sad/depressed, but the truth is I’m actually a really nice guy and I’m very positive. Thank you for this content 🙏, it helped me with my tone, I sound more confident, my words are strong and I sound like an expert.
  • @bctanzer
    I think this was the video I was looking for. You really honed in on what my problem is. My view of the world around me is impacting my otherwise happy and fulfilling life and marriage.