How Narcissist Steals Your Unconscious, Lures YOU into His Nightmare World

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Published 2022-02-02
The narcissist induces in you a dream state by entraining you, takes over your unconscious, mirrors you as loving mother would, inserts himself as an intractable introject in your mind.

When you cry for help, no one gives it because the narcissist is nobody and "nobody is killing you" (like in the story of Ulysses and the Cyclops).

The guy in the thumbnail is Jacques Lacan - not Sam Vaknin.

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All Comments (21)
  • @hodders9834
    The narcissistic lobotomy, you end up just staring out of a window with no thoughts, no emotion, you just shut down. It's hard to wake up.
  • @aadilmoolla9585
    When I came out of my relationship, the first thing I thought to myself was “you can’t make this shit up, it needs to be made into a movie”
  • @arlette2722
    I thought it was Professor Vaknin in the thumbnail , him and Lacan do look like twins!
  • @zeilaporto9504
    "Every attempt to explain herself is dismissed that causes her lack of identity" . Yep.
  • @goodyman6928
    Incredible. Narcs are robots, the virtual simulation. So Professor non-directly confirmed - we live in a simulation. This is not our world. It's theirs
  • Brilliantly put, Sam: "Outsource your identity to me, because I've taken your authentic original identity, and trampled it underfoot."
  • Since Lacan says The Unconscious is structured like a language, I can see how the narcissist uses language to steal the Other’s unconscious.
  • This video is a TEXTBOOK of pure genius level, eye opening wisdom!!!!! I consider myself privileged to be alive in the same decade as Prof Sam Vaknin.
  • Been there. Stay there long enough you'll lose yourself 👍🏽
  • I just woke up 2 weeks ago during an attack. The hollow statements triggered the lights and it is a complex nightmare the way the furniture of my mind is arranged. Covert Narcissist Weaponized pity was the hook. And now it must end.
  • @mpaulsen999
    Dr. Vaknin’s resemblance to Jacques Lacan is uncanny!
  • @Fururu333
    Wonderland really is a nightmarish world. Where things don’t make sense, you start doubting yourself, up is down and so on. And the characters in it are dismissive and speaking in riddles, confusing you even more, or are downright hostile. It truly is a great analogy for a relationship with someone with npd or aspd. You left us in suspense though, Sam! How do we reset our system and come back to normal?
  • I remember towards the end of the relationship he said to me "All you seem to do is gaze out of the window "now I know why .
  • @sonjamorris2359
    I was married to a crazy making vulnerable, intellectual narcissist….as I watched this I recalled that his favorite book is Solaris 😱😨😬☠️
  • @5ive69
    Parents and family and friends do this too. It steals your time and energy and health. Stay strong ❤
  • @franlewis1607
    Dr. Vaknin, Thank you. I finally get the hall of mirrors and looking into him as a mirror. Incredible and yet, disturbingly sad. He did not exist. You are a brilliant teacher.
  • @jemarie4832
    I have to give you MUCH LOVE for the outpouring of knowledge you share in relating to the Narcisse Virus. You diligently put in AMPLE amount of content that hasn't been taught as you do. Your videos helped me to recognize EVERY action of this monster, but unlike most people I left. Because of you I'm aware..thank you, for dedicating so much of your life to this matter, it's more epic than we'll ever understand, be blessed