Shawn Ryan on Going From Navy SEAL to Civilian

I’m a Desert Shield/Storm vet, and I have gone back to Iraq 3xs and Kosovo 2xs on private contracts, as a police trainer/bomb dog handler. It’s weird hearing the names of some of those companies. I’ve never heard them mentioned before, except for Shawn. As for the “thank you for your service”, it surprises me when someone says it to me. But, as a female, I still get some sexism. One Veterans Day, I was in Burger King. I gave my order, moved over, to wait for it. 2 men came in, and the worker asked them if they were veterans. Both were. Don’t remember what they got, but I looked at the worker, and said “You didn’t ask me if I was a veteran.” Her face turned bright red. I wasn’t hostile or loud, just stated a fact. She then asked me if I was. I said yes, but I didn’t say it to get something free, just to make her realize, there are a lot of us female vets walking around.

The Shawn Ryan show is amazing. He’s doing a great thing.

As a soldier that is transitioning after 15 years, I want to say shawn ryan is an inspiration.

@The Dr. John Delony Show, I think the bigger question that needs to be asked is "why doesn't the government have a transitioning program put into place for our military who are rotating back into civilian life? They go through MOS, and tons of other Mititary education. Their last 6 months should be on how to take the leadership, teamwork and utility skills learned in the service and translate them into the civilian workforce.

What a crossover I didn't expect. Thank you both for all the content you bring to all of us!

I work for a Pedorthist and we provide shoes to Vets through the VA. It is my greatest honor to be able to serve those who have sacrificed so much for us. I thank each one for their service before I leave. I am an Air Force brat so I do understand a little better than most the sacrifices that they made. One gentleman ( a Vietnam Vet) said “thank you so much for recognizing my service. I rarely ever hear a thank you from anyone.” It made me sad that people today don’t respect these soldiers, male and female, and their sacrifices and the sacrifices of their families.

Thank you for your service. I too had a difficult transition. One of my worst memories was coming home from Iraq around THANKSGIVING. After almost 18months of controlled entrances and exits and controlong those pathways a GROCERY STORE was overwhelming. I had no control or idea who was coming or going and I was in fear for my life.

Damn this guy started popping up talking to people about relationship problems and then here’s Shawn on his podcast. I am here for it!!

I appreciate EACH & EVERY SINGLE person who has been brave enough to NOT ONLY defend our country but also show strangers (even the bitches that spit in their faces& cleans nasty shoes on our flag) RESPECT and LOVE!! at times, I find it difficult to express how greatful I am of them into words.. That sounds crazy right??

He correct about veterans benefits and how they work . Did not know they get a % after they retire. Met many vets who get basically nothing and have to drive 1 1/2 hrs to see a dr or get treatment .

USAF 1974-94: I never heard “Thank you for your service” until Desert Shield/Storm troops came home in 1991. Vietnam veterans didn’t either. Now-A-Daze I reply, “You're welcome. I will pass your thanks to my children and my wives. They actually sacrificed more than anyone understands.” “Your wives?” “Yes the military life is seldom compatible with married life.”

More content like this Dr. John

Love both of these guys. John’s episode on Shawn’s podcast was absolutely awesome! Love that he is on here now

Soldiers are trained to kill. Anybody who lives in denial of it and expects them to switch that mind frame into a civilized and friendly one has an illusion, especially if they have been soldiers for many years. You become what you do 8 hours a day. Soldiers have a life where they are not only 8 hours under special psychological demand but really 24/7 non stop or they can't perform according to their uniform. The mind frame of a soldier has to be opposite of civil behavior just to survive. So to expect that they can switch after many years is a terrible mistake and psychologically impossible. It would take massive reprogramming to get that out of their system. That is the reason why for example marriages and relationships of service members have very high numbers of domestic violence and also violent crimes. But I respect every one who tries and struggles with this issue. It's a high goal.

Thank you for showcasing a Vets perspective in terms of appreciation. In the past, I have been reluctant to say to a service person, “Thank you for your service” so it would not come across as trite for what hardships they had gone through in and out military service.

Shawn articulated that so well

Shawn has to be one of my favorites, if not, my favorite interviwer. Nice to see him on the opposite seat as an interviewee.

My two favorite podcasters!!! AWESOME collab!

He so right about Va disability claims. I know more non combat vets with 100% than combat vets.

Truest love is willing the good of the other as 'other' without any selfish or prideful expectations. And I truly love you. I love you immensely. I hope you find joy, fulfillment, and peace in your life. Life can be hellish and agonizing,  but just as much as it can be beautiful. Selfless love transforms us. Heals us. We don't need the barriers we put up out of fear and self-protection. As cliche as it sounds, love is the answer. Tell your brothers and sisters today that you love them unironically. Whether blood or not. 💗 Peace be with you, beautiful and precious soul, whom I am so grateful for. Until next time 💗🕊