Psychologist Explains How To Get Over A Breakup & Heartbreak

Published 2024-03-08
A breakup is a very painful experience - we lose one of the most important people in our life, we lose the vision we had for our future, we often doubt ourselves and this turns it into a blow for our self esteem. In this video I explain how to get through a breakup and heartbreak, so you can heal, let go and protect your self esteem. I wish you all the best!

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00:00 Introduction
00:19 Why Breakups Are So Painful
01:58 Understanding Why
02:33 Analyze Individual Contributions
03:08 Unburden Yourself Of Your Ex's Share
03:46 What You Have No Control Over
04:18 Let Go
05:03 Protect Your Self Esteem
06:22 Stop Idealizing Your Ex
06:47 Become Aware Of Red Flags
07:26 Be Proactive

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All Comments (21)
  • @jcqwater8713
    heart aches are painful, like you miss them so bad, you want to hug them but you know you have to let go Have mercy on me God
  • Exactly. It’s really painful. I cannot stop crying. I cannot get this guy out of my head even when he treated me like an option. He lives in my building, so that’s why I’m feeling it’s extremely hard to pull away emotionally because it every time I see him the emotions come back. 😔 also he never gave me closure. He just sort of disappeared out of my life.
  • @SkolMN18
    8:03 the moment she said don’t stalk their social media profile, I did exactly that
  • @NicholasFaden
    In one year we did and shared so much together, she was my everything, she was perfect in every little way for me, she was very positive and everything was working, but in the end, she left me and ended everything in a matter of few texts. We texted a few times after but we stopped after the last "happy birthday", 4 months have passed since she broke up with me and I'm still crying everyday, i can't seem to go on, it's so painful, sometimes it seems i feel better for a while and then she comes back in my mind with all the good memories we had together and it breaks my heart again and again... I'm genuinely scared
  • I'm going through a divorce and it's been very hard and painful, this video is very helpful, healing and soothing at the same time, ❤
  • @d3licioso888
    Thank u so much I’m going through a situation of detaching myself from a relationship is not easy but I’m learning of loving myself again for anybody out there don’t loose hope keep going 💪🏽
  • @jacksonswwong
    In my deepest depression i got to hear this. Thanks.
  • @DrSuchismita
    I am going the exact cycle you just talked about..broke up a month back and since then i have been mailing him to just meet me once and talk and literally begging him to not give up on our relationship of 3yrs..but all in vain..he hasn't responded even once..with time i am just feeling guilty and have started to blame myself for runining our relationship..i was the one who broke up with him coz i couldn't take the way i was being treated..and now i am blaming myself for everything!
  • @bonnano5815
    Break Ups Are Like Wounds, It Heals In Time. Leave The Past Where They Should, Move On Learn From The Healing Process.
  • @kltyoshi1
    Hi Maika this came at a crazy universal timing with what i am going through!🌠 The most painful is when you acted out of unhealed trauma and sabotage the relationship that way😥 Thank you for always being so kind in your videos:thanksdoc:🌻
  • @simong120
    This is one of the most helpful videos I have ever watched, it puts everything into perspective.