Making male friends ⏲️ 6 Minute English

Published 2023-09-14
Some say that men are much worse than women at making and keeping friends. How true is this? Neil and Beth discuss male friendship and teach you some useful English vocabulary.

❓❓❓ This week's question: According to Oxford University's Institute of Cognitive Anthropology, how many close friends do we need for our mental wellbeing? Is it:
a) five?
b) ten?
c) twenty?
Listen to the programme to hear the answer.

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You can download the audio and a pdf transcript here 👉
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Vocabulary:
✔️times are tough - periods of trouble, unhappiness or financial difficulty in life
✔️get through - (phrasal verb) manage to live through a difficult situation
✔️drift away - gradually move further and further apart from someone until your relationship with them is broken
✔️Billy No-Mates - (slang) a person with no friends
✔️double-edged sword - something that has unfavourable as well as favourable consequences
✔️outgoing - very friendly; enjoys meeting and talking to people

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All Comments (21)
  • VOCABULARY I LEARNT FROM THE VIDEO 1. Indeed ( adv ) : really and certainly, often used to emphasize something => a friend in need is a friend indeed . 2. institute ( noun ) : an organization where people do a particular type of scientific, educational or social work , or the buildings that it uses 3. cognitive ( adjective ) : connected with thinking or conscious mental processes => cognition ( noun ) = conscious : the use conscious mental processes. 4. stereotype ( noun ) : a set idea that people have about what something or someone is like, especially an idea that is wrong. => racial/ sexual stereotype 5. outline ( noun ) : the main shape or edge of something without ant details . 6. tough = hard = difficult => times are tough : periods of trouble, unhappiness or financial difficulty . 7. reassure ( verb ) : to comfort someone and stop them for worrying. 8. get through : managed to live through unpleasant period of time. 9. drift ( verb ) : to move slowly, especially as a result of outside forces, with no control over direction. => drift away : gradually move further and further apart from someone until your relationship with them is broken 10. Billy No-Mates - (slang) a person with no friends 11. double-edged sword - something that has unfavorable as well as favorable consequences 12. core : the basic and most important part of something = fundamental, essential 13. outgoing ( adjective ) : very friendly; enjoys meeting and talking to people QUANG MINH FROM VIET NAM - 16/9/2023 => ALL THE BEST FOR YOU !
  • @BriantheBrick
    You can have a lot of friends if you are outgoing. And when times are tough, your friends can help you get through. However, they might drift away, making you a Billy No-Mates. That situation is a double-edged sword. You have more free time because you don't have plans with friends, but you might be lonely, and loneliness could lead to sadness.
  • @trangdieu.18c
    VOCABULARY Making male friends ⏲ 6 Minute English 1. Anthropology: Social anthropology examines family relationships in detail. 2. Cognitive: a child’s cognitive development 3. Stereotype: cultural/gender/racial stereotypes 4. Nurture: These delicate plants need careful nurturing. 5. Magical: Her words had a magical effect on us. 6. Times are tough : periods of trouble, unhappiness or financial difficulty in life 7. Get through : (phrasal verb) manage to live through a difficult situation 8. Drift away : gradually move further and further apart from someone until your relationship with them is broken 9. Billy No-Mates : (slang) a person with no friends 10. Double-edged sword : something that has unfavourable as well as favourable consequences 11. Outgoing : very friendly; enjoys meeting and talking to people 9.14.20223 VIETNAM ALL THE BEST FOR YOU ^^ Nice to meet ALL you. Hihi
  • @Brian-fo6ew
    I just attended your Live Lesson, and now you're presenting 6 Minute English, Beth! It's the Beth (best) day ever!
  • @marianneabiera945
    Such a wonderful lessons indeed.The videos you shared are highly commendable and quintessential. I'm so grateful because of the impeccable ideas and learnings you shared to us. Thank you for the vocabularies which is undoubtedly helpful to us
  • @BrianBrian-qn8sc
    I have many learning English friends here at BBC Learning English!
  • @julioabbadie9828
    Thanks for introducing the topic of friendship in the era of social networks. I think that they separate us from human interaccion and make us feel more lonely.Julio retired teacher
  • @susanaespinosa2903
    Hola, thanks you BBC ,my friends for the best learning. Greetings from the southern cone!!
  • @joyyyy777
    Great program. You are my great friends BBC!!
  • @shanva6492
    I have a lot of friends in this BBC Learning English Channel. That’s my main focus for talk to other people.
  • @johnibat
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  • @user-el7jy7mu4b
    I am happy to learn English and common sense through this program. I listen to one story every day. And I write the whole story of the most interesting topic in an English notebook. I really enjoy this program. Thank you so much.
  • @harshagopal7607
    Once again thank you Neil and Beth such wonderful topic. Iam very much interest to make and maintain friendships.Meeting friends and spending time with them really a mental therapy .I wish all of them have to keep tight their close friends for life long.
  • @_NguyenMyDuyen
    Thanks for your videos. This is a good way to improve my English skills.❤❤❤
  • @tammytsang3487
    I am a people- person but I don’t really have a lot of friends. However, I can get along with people easily. Thank you for your newest podcast!
  • Thanks for this wonderful video. I think having goods friends is not an easy thing. According to my own experience, you can make very good and close friends when doing the same activity, wether studying, going to university, being at the same sport team and so on. That is said, it can seem easy to make new friends when sharing the same activity but perhaps it's difficult to mantain that friendships throught time, since the same interests dissapear. Greetings from Spain!! By the way, I am looking for a friend to do an English-Spanish language exchange via e-mail. Is anyone encouraged?
  • @saadmosad6923
    I have afew of friends but They very good friends, They always help me when I need them