When the narcissist realizes they cannot replace you
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Publicado 2023-12-14
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when you leave a narcissist, your value becomes very obvious - they struggle with that because they’ve been downplaying it in your presence and now have no choice but to face it in your absence
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When you start getting educated, and know how they operate, you come to the amazing conclusion how predictable they are.. there is nothing authentic about them, they are a joke...
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My narcissist ex thought he could replace me after I loved him unconditionally. 1 year and a half later of no contact, he's now trying to come back into my life. Nope, I'm long gone✌️. He will never find another like me. He took me for granted. He now has to see that unfortunately.
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I think they just move on to the next victim and continue until they die
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My ex narc literally wrote "it's an honor to be with me" in her WhatsApp profile. We were still together at the time but even then I was floored at just how delusional she was. "An honor? It's a fucking nightmare!"
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They think people are replaceable because THEY are replaceable. They treat people like objects because THEY are objects. Narcissist project OFTEN, subconsciously, they KNOW that they do not have much to offer and thus blend in with most people. Which means they can be replaced easily. Hence, their insatiable need to be the best, the center of attention and basically worshiped
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Bitter and unsatisfied with a new supply they don't really want but are unable to replace. Now that's Karma.
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after 3 years of no contact, boom, I saw the ex in the grocery store. "scott, how are you?!'....big smile of the face. all I said was 'good' and kept walking. I went to grab one more thing, turned around and headed for the cashier. sure enough, the ex had circled around and was coming at me again. I cut a hard left, glanced at her face.....narc injury. sure I got triggered but was pleasantly surprised I regulated so quickly. so grateful... cool video.
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“Not willing to be an object of their negative projection” .. 😮🥳🥳 bingo!!!
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They always downplay you when they’re with you. I left my narc, and after he realized I wasn’t coming back, he started begging. It’s crazy because the reasons that normal people have for wanting someone back are not their reasons. If you REALLY listen to what they’re saying, you’ll hear the truth. Mine told me “I’m not going to find anybody like you.” And yes, he was right. He never will. He didn’t want me back because he loved me, he wanted me back because I was the best he’d ever do.
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They dump on you and make you want to leave them. Only for them to immediately try to find your replacement. A smart individual would do everything in their power to keep a good person around so they wouldn't have to go back on the hunt. It's a vicious stupid cycle and existence for them.
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Narcs live life looking in the rear view mirror! The only way they miss you is if you move on with your life and NEVER look back! You win and live life as if they were never a blip on your radar! Let em back in and it will be worse than ever!
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They don’t want to face the demons that bind them!
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I believe that what is most memorable about any human being is how they made you feel! With that being said I do believe that a narcissist can absolutely miss the way a special individual MADE THEM FEEL! What human being wouldn't miss feeling safe, loved, and accepted? What person wouldn't miss someone who made them feel like they were connected to a light that helped them cope with the darkness inside of them? Just because a narcissist cannot love you right doesn't mean they cannot miss how you loved them!
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They believe the rebound will bring them the replacement they were looking for!
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At first they’re a kid in a candy store - but overtime - hum - all people grow up & move on. And there lies the Narc that has no one that will put up with their crap anymore . They become sad, lonely, bitter and pitiful but still won’t reflect on their shortcomings
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He discarded me and tried to come back so I blocked him! I will never put up with such treatment ever again
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Narcopaths are worthless us survivors/empaths are priceless, never be tempted to go back, onwards and upwards.
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It took me almost a decade to heal from trauma bonding from narcissistic relationship..I loved her,trusted her more than anything else in this world..the way she discarded me was brutal, she wasn't answering my calls and suddenly talk to me as I was stranger in front of her new supply..time won't heal you, you need therapy to heal.. educate yourself about NPD would make you understand more and heal much faster
